I haven’t played video games in a while. For a couple of years I played “No Man’s Sky” which I really enjoyed. But I have a life and responsibilities. So that is now taking second seat to my life.









Whenever I would go though a breakup, lose my job, or have a rough day… off I go to my video games. They are great distractions and helped me out a lot.
The funny thing is that I didn’t ever play them like you would think. For instance I once had this military strategy game. But instead of playing the game, I devoted most of my time building scenarios with the terrain building tool. I would place house on hills, add flowers and trees. It was my little escape. Don’t you know.
Of course, that is all on the computer.
I have no idea how you can play games on a cell phone. I guess that I just don’t have the eyes to play it very well.
LOL.
Take the time to participate in life, and limit your game-play escapes.
Today…
If Americans are going to pay tariffs on all foreign goods, what happens to all the money collected? What social programs does President Trump have to make sure that money goes back to U.S. citizens?
Trump was trying to set up an “External Revenue Agency “ to receive the tariff money and he would control it. Even though the constitution says the house controls spending.
It is assumed he wanted to use those funds to pay for the deportations. And to pay the private contractors that would be hired to do the work. Maybe build the wall with Mexico too. All the money would flow to his billionaire friends. I have no doubt that a percentage would stick to him as well.
I see the whole affair as a con job and when caught would claim presidential immunity.
But just the tariff he was going to put on Cabadian oil would have raised about $20 million per day. The whole plan would have raised maybe $75 billion a year.
So now his plan is a Sovereign Wealth Fund. Except those things are normally. funded by government budget surpluses.
Before Her Visa Expired My Young FWB Schemed To Get Me To Commit, Instead I Sent Her Home And…
Who do you envy?
I’ve been traveling a lot recently. That’s what your early 20s are for, I guess.
And because I’m on a limited budget, I’ve been on a lot of budget airlines recently. Flights as low as 25 euros, but almost always with a catch.
- Oftentimes you only get one backpack, which has to be exactly 40x25x20cm
- Overnight layovers, sometimes in airports that close for the night. I felt like a 1960s hippie at Woodstock when I spent the night camping out with a bunch of other young Europeans, sleeping on benches, sharing food and making sure vagrants didn’t steal from us or harm us.
- Really long flight times, often stringing together like 3 flights in completely opposite directions (e.g. Germany to Morocco to Portugal is like €26, but Germany to Portugal is like €260)
But I get to fly all over multiple continents, for the price that I used to pay just for a McDonalds family meal back in Sydney, so who am I to complain?
Anyways, these budget flights often have me traveling for up to 60 hours at a time, if you count layovers, customs lines, public transport etc.
And for the life of me, I don’t understand how some people look so good at airports. Like, seriously. They don’t sweat, they look like they moonlight as H&M mannequins.
The girls’ makeups’ never run, and they all look like supermodels. Other guys my age can literally wear, like, cotton blue T-shirts and not be sweaty, or grow a 5-o-clock shadow, or show any signs of dishevelment at all.
I feel like a disgusting slob after spending any amount of time travelling. The second I get to the hostel, it’s straight to the shower for me. I’m so ashamed of myself, and I’ve tried everything.
Roll-on deodorant. Baby wipes. One change of clothes every 6 hours. Melatonin. Chewing gum. Breath mints.
So while I don’t resent the people who look so good when flying and traveling, I certainly envy them. I want to know their secret. How do they do it?
Why will China lose all Western trade as it aligns with Russia?
Is this one of those joke questions?
Let me ask you something, does China need you or do you need China.
Let’s put this into perspective. If China decided to stop selling to European countries your entire way of life would stop. Cars, Technology, Heating, Solar, Clothes, Tools. China is so integrated into the supply chain that, well, you would find it hard to manufacture the nail to put it into your coffin.
The BRI (Belts and Roads Initiative) Over the past decade, more than 77,000 trips were made by freight trains between China and Europe, carrying 7.31 million TEUs of freight worth US$340 billion. Its service has reached 217 cities in 25 European countries and provided an important network connecting global trade and economies.
I don’t actually get half the questions on Quora, who asks these, really, is it to gain a pissed off reaction like thins? Maybe.
China does not do politics, it does commerce – I wish more countries didn’t do politics as everything would be running smoother. So next time you ask, Why will China lose all Western trade as it aligns with Russia? Ask yourself, how bad would my life be if that happened and then you know the answer of why that would not happen.
Do people who got divorced regret it?
I regretted my first divorce.
I’ll paint the picture. I was married to an amazing woman. She was pretty, clever, loyal, fun to be around. We had a child and brought her up well together.
I got a job working away from home, coming home at weekends. I was an idiot and fell for someone else. I still to this day have no idea why. I left my wife for this other woman. My wife divorced me and rightfully so.
I set up home with the second woman, got married and had a child.
Two years after getting married to the second woman we split up. She was nasty in just about everything she did. Apart from the birth of the child and having her around, it was the worst two years of my life. I wanted to end my life so much during that time. It was the guilt of how I treated my first wife together with being the way my second wife was behaving.
We had an almighty row and she demanded a divorce. I was happy with that because I wanted out of this relationship. I would rather be alone with the feelings of guilt for the first wife than be with this witch any longer.
Through my eldest daughter I managed to speak to my first wife again. Within a few weeks of splitting with the second wife I had met my first one. All those feelings I had had years before came rushing back. She told me that her feelings for me had never changed, even though I had really badly hurt and betrayed her. We decided that we would give it another go. We remarried and have been very happily married for ten years now.
Does my wife regret divorcing me? No. It needed to be done because I left her.
Do I regret getting divorced? No. It made me realise what a fool I had been. It nearly destroyed me but I deserved it.
Do I regret divorcing the second wife? No. It was the best money I have ever spent.
Why did the Marine Corps implement liberty distance restrictions?
Because the young knuckleheads will drive from Camp LeJuene to northern Michigan on a two day weekend if not restricted to a particular area on liberty. This was called “busting a swoop”. On the way back from Norway aboard the USS Saipan we were on liberty in Portsmouth England and were casually talking about swooping to Boston, Atlanta, and Ohio and a group of Englishmen overheard us and were amazed at how casually we were mentioning a 750 mile one way road trip.
“Bloody hell, that’s from here to the south of France!” One guy exclaimed. We were cleaning our vehicles to keep dirt out of the USA to prevent agricultural pests from being imported. We were in England for a week or two doing this agricultural wash down. The three Englishmen took a diesel Golf from Portsmouth to Nice France on a two day weekend and were bragging loudly to the other Englishmen in the pub. The English were impressed but we just thought it normal.
Yes I said knuckleheads, I was one of those knuckleheads as a young man. I regularly drove from Cherry Point NC to southeast Ohio to visit my girlfriend now my wife on a two day weekend.
Yes I was tired and have fallen asleep at the wheel. I woke up in the median of interstate 81 twenty miles past where I should have went north on interstate 77. It was as if I had woken up inside a hay baler as the Virginia DOT let the grass grow a bit tall. I took a nap and then finished the trip.
People died from falling asleep at the wheel. People also got hurt from the accidents. Non combat losses mean you have lost the money invested in training a knucklehead and the hospital bills cut into the military healthcare budget.
You could get an out of bounds chit (permission slip to go outside the restricted area) if you had a round trip plane ticket. One guy I served with was from Dallas Texas and had wealthy parents. He had round trip plane tickets for each weekend and an out of bounds chit. If his flight was delayed or canceled he could call the unit and be accounted for. If three guys wanted to swoop to Boston on a two day weekend your car would be inspected by an NCO and you got out of bounds chits. You had to be back in formation by Monday morning or you could be punished. Three guys was considered acceptable as one guy drove, another navigated, and the third was asleep in the backseat. Every two hours or so the places rotated.
It is a safety issue and an accountability concern that your people are scattered throughout the eastern seaboard or into the Midwest on a two day weekend.
Italian Pot Roast

Ingredients
- 1 (3 to 5 pound) roast
- 1 package au jus seasoning
- 1 package dry Italian dressing
- 1 (12 ounce) can tomato juice
- 1 small package baby carrots
- 3 medium potatoes, cubed
Instructions
- Place the roast in the slow cooker.
- Put the carrots and the potatoes in with the roast.
- Put the seasoning packets in a mixing bowl with the tomato juice and mix.
- Pour the mix over the roast and veggies.
- Put on LOW for 8 1/2 hours or on HIGH for 4 1/2 hours.
My Life as an Alien in Mississippi
Submitted into Contest #210 in response to: Write about a character who has to grapple with something completely alien to them.… view prompt
Bruce Friedman
My name is Brad Chao. I’m living in Chicago now but I spent my growing-up years in the Mississippi Delta. It’s now 2001 and I just turned 80 years and have been thinking lately about my early life down south. I never fit in there despite my goal of trying to be accepted. The worst thing that ever happened to me took place there when I was only a teenager. The events almost cost me my freedom and life. I ultimately had to flee for suspicion of murder with the sheriff on my tail. We Chinese were a handy target for the bullies in town but I’m getting ahead of myself.
You may be curious about how I got to Mississippi in the first place. I was born in 1921 in a poor area in southern China. Rocky, dry land, and large families with too many mouths to feed. At age 15, I took off, seeking a better life. I made my way to Canton, now Guangdong, and was hired as a mess boy on a passenger ship bound for New York. I jumped ship when we arrived in port. I quickly found work in a Chinese laundry in Brooklyn but it was not a satisfying life for me, particularly since I was by myself.
My uncle, Charlie Chao, had come to the U.S. around the turn of the century and settled in Rosedale, Mississippi, which had a small Chinese community. A speck of a town with a handful of rundown stores, one of which Charlie rented to sell groceries to black people. Chinese grocery stores played an important role in Mississippi rural culture because white store owners wouldn’t sell goods to them. Their stores, small shacks really, filled an important function in small towns. They served as gathering places for blacks who wanted to socialize with their neighbors and also for job-finding. They also offered credit that was essential to the very poor people.
Anyway, Charlie was growing quite frail. He had sent a letter to me in Brooklyn, offering me a job in his store which I quickly accepted. I was his only heir and also his only family. He had lost his wife about 30 years previously and had no kids of his own. It was tough work, mainly because of the long hours. Sun up to sun down, 365 days a year. None of us Chinese had been to school back home and spoke poor English and, perhaps, even poorer Chinese. We lived in the back of our stores, squeezed together like sardines.
Our social status in Mississippi was somewhere between the whites and blacks. We were shopkeepers which did earn us some degree of respect. But we also weren’t allowed to go to school with the whites. The county did set up Chinese school rooms for our kids, usually taught by a white teacher. We made enough money to put rice on the table but not much more. Most of the Chinese kids in town caught a bus heading out of town as soon as they could. Family ties did keep a number of Chinese in the state but under continuing and difficult circumstances, particularly from the local Klan. I won’t go into that here.
***
Shortly after I arrived in town, Uncle Charlie took sick and died. I then became the sole proprietor of his store which I had inherited. The Chinese community was always very supportive of me and I never felt lonely or heartsick. My life was as good as it gets down there until one evening when I seemed to have become a criminal with no special effort on my part.
Bursting through the front door of my grocery store one evening came Mr. Beauregard Tavernier, dragging a large, heavy burlap sack behind him. I knew who he was from town gossip but, of course, he had never set foot in my store. I did know that he owned the largest cotton plantation in the area.
He entered in a rush and obviously in a foul mood. He was grunting as he pulled a heavy sack into the room. I came out from behind the counter and respectfully bowed to him, anxious to find out what why he was there. My humble gesture didn’t seem to put him in a better mood.
“Don’t just stand there, boy,” he said to me. “Can’t you see that I need help with this here load,” he shouted.
“Help in what way, Mr. Tavernier? I’m sure what kind of help you need.” My question definitely put in an even fouler mood. In retrospect, it truly was a stupid question but chalk it up to me being scared shitless.
“Quit your yapping, boy! I need to store this here sack out of sight for a while,” he said, glancing around the premises.
He then said: “Where does that door yonder lead to?”
“My storage room for canned goods and sacks of flour,” I replied. “No customers are allowed back there,” I replied.
“That suits my purpose for my package,” he replied. “Now help me get it back there.”
The two of us pulled his heavy sack back to the room. Both of us were straining because it was so heavy and flopped around.
“You hear me good now, boy. Y’all hold onto this for a day or two until I find a more suitable place for it. Right now, your store is my best choice, at least for a spell. No one’s gonna think of your place when lookin’ for the corpus delicti. But that’s pretty fancy talk for y’all. Pay it no mind.”
“Anyone asks,” he continued, “you never seen me this night or any other. I’m goin’ to send one of my boys back here tomorrow night to collect it. You’ll need to help him boost it onto the truck. Don’t let anyone see what you’re doing. The dark night will help but there are a lot of ‘eyes’ in this part of town.”
He then rushed out of the store as quickly as he had entered, never looking back. I just stood there, shaking my head and wondering what had just happened. I did not have a good feeling about it. It was clear that I had few or no other options so I went along with his directions.
***
The next day around lunchtime, a sharp rap came on the front door. This time it was Sheriff Burnley who stepped inside. No one ever knocked on the door so I was on high alert to see who was there. His visit, though, set a new record for me—two high profile, white men showing up out of nowhere in my store in just two days. He looked around suspiciously and then beckoned for me to come over to him from behind the counter. I was in a state of shock, continuing from the previous night, and aware that I was in deep trouble.
“You Brad Chao? he asked.
“Yes, sir, how can I help you.”
“Well, to start and unfortunately, there’s been a lynchin’ of a colored boy in town. Age 16 years. You may have heard some talk about this? It’s on everyone’s lips. This gossip will truly be the death of me.”
“No, Sir. What you are saying is none of my business. I don’t pay no mind to town gossip. I try to keep a clean record and just run my store for my black customers who are also good citizens.”
“I decide who’s a good citizen,” the Sheriff replied. “More to the point, I was told by one of your neighbors that Mr. Beauregard Tavernier was seen entering these premises last night. That seemed strange to all of us back at the station. White men don’t usually have no truk with the the Chinese and their shops. Did you, by any chance, see him last night?”.
I replied, trying to keep my cool and provide him with the best, honest answer I could under the circumstances: “Sheriff, you of all folks, know that no white men would be caught dead in a Chinese grocery in town, particularly at night. Only for black folks.”
“That’s sure true, the Sheriff replied quickly, stroking his beard and still looking at me, squinty-eyed. “The story didn’t make no sense to me but I am trying to cover all the bases. Lynchin’ has become less ‘popular’ these days in the state and I am starting to feel some pressure from above to find a guilty party. ”
For a moment, he appeared to be suspiciously eyeing the back of my store. That’s the last thing in the world that I wanted.
“Watcha’ got stored back there, boy? he asked suddenly. “Your stock or, perhaps, even some other goods?”
“No need to search the store any further, Sheriff” I responded. “You don’t want to go back there. That’s where I live. Very messy. I also cook there on a hot plate. Kind of smells bad. You won’t like it. Best stay away.”
He seemed to be satisfied by my words, and also not inclined to stay in my store any longer than necessary. He suddenly wheeled around and strode out the front door, not even giving me a backward glance. I was glad to see him gone, but I didn’t know what to do next.
I finally realized that I was in a heap of trouble, none of which was of my own making. I was now apparently on the sheriff’s short list of possible suspects for the lynching, although it made no sense at all. He just wanted to arrest someone but certainly not a prominent white man.
***
It was the next night and I was sleeping. I heard a soft knock on the back door. I opened it carefully to see Aaron, a black man who worked for Mr. Beauregard. A truck was parked in the back of the store, idling.
“Boss man, sent me to pick up a ‘package’ that you holdin’ for him in your store,” he said. “He tole me not to let anyone see me transport it. So here I am.”
I got out of bed and helped Aaron load the sack on his truck bed and then covered it with a tarp. He motioned me over to him and placed his mouth gently to my ear.
“Mr. Chao, I don’t know what you done and I don’t even want to know. You been kind to us. People in town doin’ a lot of talkin’ about recent events, however. The sheriff lookin’ for someone to pin this lynchin’ on. The ‘trouble’ seems to be puttin’ the town and state in a bad light. You yourself now seem to be the perfect choice for blamin’ for the crime. They won’t never pin a lynchin’ on a black man and you may be the next best choice.” With that he hurried over to the truck and drove away in a cloud of dust.
***
I began to go over my options to stay alive. They were to stay in town or jump on a bus headed north. It would not be good for one of our community to be under a magnifying glass. Best thing, I finally concluded, would be to catch the bus for Chicago that left early the next morning. The sheriff would soon be looking for another patsy. Unfortunately for him, to charge a black with a charge of lynching would be laughable.
I packed my suitcase in a hurry, reserving a place for a small Chinese shrine with the ashes of my Uncle Charlie. Nothing much else of value to take with me. A few wrinkled clothes. I knew that hightailing it out of town made me look guilty.
I knew for certain that the large number of white people in town who had actually witnessed the lynching knew that I was not involved. All the sheriff needed to do was to ask a few questions in town which he didn’t seem to want to do. No, he would merely let this incident fade in people’s memory with his most important suspect gone to “who knows where up north.”
Pepe Escobar: SURPRISING Truth About BRICS and Global Affairs
What are songs whose meaning everybody got wrong?
There is actually a bunch.
Born in the U.S.A.” – Bruce Springsteen probably tops the list for my generation. Its a favorite at 4th of July picnics and other patriotic events but its really a critique of how bad the U.S. government treated Veterans and working-class Americans. The song talks about how the U.S. government abandoned its soldiers, especially those from poor backgrounds, sending them to war but failing to support them when they returned.
Every Breath You Take” by The Police is seen as a romantic love song by most people but the reality is its a song about obsessive control, jealousy, and stalking.
Sting wrote Every Breath You Take while in the middle of divorcing his first wife, Frances Tomelty, while beginning a relationship with her best friend, Trudie Styler.
The song was born out of feelings of obsession, possessiveness, and surveillance rather than love and devotion. He described it as a song about a “twisted kind of love,” emphasizing that it’s about someone who is obsessed with another person, watching their every move, and feeling entitled to control them.
Summer of ’69” by Bryan Adams. Many listeners assume that Summer of ’69 is about Bryan Adams reminiscing about the actual summer of 1969, a time of music, freedom, and youthful adventure. However, Adams himself was only 10 years old in 1969, so he wasn’t forming a band and falling in love at that time.
In interviews, Adams has admitted that while the song does evoke a sense of nostalgia, the title is also a sexual reference. Co-writer Jim Vallance originally wanted to set the song in 1976, since that was when Adams was actually playing in bands. But Adams pushed for ’69 because it was “a funny double entendre.”
In a 2008 interview, Adams explicitly stated:
“It’s about making love in the summertime. *‘69’ has nothing to do with the year.”
There are a lot more but there ya go.
Shorpy















Sir Whiskerton and the Case of the Tie-Dye Tussle
Ah, dear reader, prepare yourself for another whimsical adventure on Sir Whiskerton’s farm, where the animals are as quirky as they come, and the mischief is always just a whisker away. Today’s tale involves Bessie the Tie-Dye Cow, Catnip’s bumbling hench-creatures, and a lesson in staying true to oneself. So, grab your sense of humor and let’s moo-ve into The Case of the Tie-Dye Tussle.
The Plot Thickens
It was a peaceful afternoon on the farm. The sun was shining, the birds were chirping, and Bessie the Tie-Dye Cow was lounging in the pasture, her psychedelic coat shimmering in the sunlight. She was humming a tune about peace, love, and the occasional hay bale, when suddenly, a rustling in the bushes caught her attention.
Out popped Squeakers the mouse and Ratticus the rat, followed closely by Bonbo the rat and Grumbles the mouse. They were Catnip’s hench-creatures, and they had a mission: to manipulate Bessie into giving up her prized possession—a shiny, new bell that the farmer had gifted her earlier that day.
“Psst, Bessie,” Squeakers squeaked, his tiny voice dripping with false sweetness. “We couldn’t help but notice your fabulous new bell. It’s so… shiny. And loud. And, uh, totally not annoying.”
Bessie blinked slowly, her dreamy eyes focusing on the tiny rodents. “Oh, hey there, little dudes. Are you here to talk about the cosmic energy of the universe? Or maybe the beauty of a well-timed cowbell?”
Ratticus stepped forward, puffing out his chest. “Uh, yeah, sure. Cosmic energy. Totally. But, uh, we were thinking… maybe you don’t need that bell. I mean, you’re already so… tie-dye. You don’t need anything else to stand out.”
Bessie tilted her head, her bell jingling softly. “Oh, I get it. You’re worried about me being too fabulous. That’s so sweet of you. But don’t worry, dudes. There’s enough fabulousness to go around.”
The Hench-Creatures’ Hilarious Hijinks
Unfazed by Bessie’s calm demeanor, the hench-creatures decided to up their game. Bonbo scurried up to Bessie’s side, holding a piece of cheese. “Hey, Bessie, look! We brought you a peace offering. You know, as a symbol of our, uh, mutual respect.”
Bessie smiled serenely. “Oh, wow, cheese. That’s so thoughtful. But, uh, I’m a cow. I don’t really eat cheese. But hey, maybe you could share it with the mice? They look like they could use a snack.”
Grumbles, who had been lurking in the background, suddenly perked up. “Wait, cheese? Where?!” He lunged for the cheese, knocking Bonbo over in the process. The two rodents tumbled into a nearby puddle, their plans unraveling faster than a ball of yarn in a kitten’s paws.
Meanwhile, Squeakers and Ratticus tried a different approach. “Bessie,” Squeakers said, his voice trembling with faux concern, “we heard that bells are, uh, bad for your chi. Yeah, they disrupt your inner peace. You should probably get rid of it.”
Bessie chuckled, her bell jingling merrily. “Oh, that’s funny. I actually heard that bells are great for your chi. They help you stay centered and grounded. Plus, they make a groovy sound when you walk. It’s like my own personal soundtrack.”
Sir Whiskerton’s Commentary
From his perch on the barn roof, Sir Whiskerton watched the scene unfold with a mixture of amusement and disdain. “Honestly,” he muttered to himself, “if Catnip’s hench-creatures were any more incompetent, they’d be running for farm council. Bessie’s handling them like a pro, though. I must admit, even I’m impressed.”
Ditto, who had been sitting beside Sir Whiskerton, echoed his mentor’s words. “Impressed! Impressed!” he chirped, his little tail flicking with excitement. “Bessie’s so cool! Cool! Cool!”
Sir Whiskerton sighed. “Yes, Ditto, Bessie is indeed ‘cool.’ Though I’m not sure why you feel the need to repeat everything I say. It’s not exactly a sign of intelligence.”
Ditto tilted his head. “Intelligence! Intelligence!” he echoed, completely missing the point.
The Grand Finale
Back in the pasture, the hench-creatures were growing desperate. Ratticus decided to pull out the big guns. “Alright, Bessie,” he said, puffing out his chest. “We’re not leaving until you hand over that bell. We’ve got orders from Catnip, and we’re not afraid to use force!”
Bessie blinked slowly, then let out a deep, resonant “Moooooooo.” The sound echoed across the pasture, startling the hench-creatures so much that they all jumped into the air, landing in a tangled heap.
“Force, huh?” Bessie said, her voice calm but firm. “You know, dudes, violence is never the answer. Maybe you should try meditating or something. It’s really helped me find my inner peace.”
With that, she turned and sauntered off, her tie-dye coat shimmering in the sunlight and her bell jingling with every step. The hench-creatures watched her go, utterly defeated.
The Moral of the Story
As Sir Whiskerton observed from his perch, he couldn’t help but smile. “Well, Ditto,” he said, “it seems Bessie has taught us all a valuable lesson today.”
Ditto nodded eagerly. “Lesson! Lesson!”
“Indeed,” Sir Whiskerton continued. “The moral of the story is this: No matter how much others try to manipulate or distract you, staying true to yourself is the ultimate victory. And, of course, a little humor and patience can go a long way in deflecting even the most persistent pests.”
Ditto clapped his tiny paws. “Victory! Victory!”
Sir Whiskerton sighed. “Yes, Ditto. Victory. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have a sunbeam to attend to.”
And with that, Sir Whiskerton stretched out on the barn roof, content in the knowledge that once again, peace and order had been restored to the farm—thanks to a tie-dye cow and a touch of bovine brilliance.
The End.
w/ Irish Champ & Bacon Jus
As I discussed in a previous post, Irish Travellers take their sausages very seriously
These Wild Boar sausages I get sent to me regularly by my uncle in Co. Donegal, who has them made especially by an Irish Traveller butcher using boars from Co. Kerry
Ground Wild Boar (90%), Rusk, Water, Salt, Onion Powder, Sage, Rosemary, Black Pepper, Thyme, Nutmeg, Marjoram, Natural Hog Casings
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Irish Champ
Red-skinned Irish Potatoes, Kerrygold Butter, Chives, Sea Salt, White Pepper
Champ is a form of mashed potatoes popular in the Province of Ulster, where my family are from
It consists of cooked potatoes that are mashed into melted butter (sometimes with the addition of milk) in which an aromatic green vegetable has first been sautéed or poached
The aromatic vegetable infuses the butter (or milk) with its flavour and aroma, which is then incorporated through the potato during mashing
The most common vegetable used to make modern Champ is scallion, however in times past, any powerful and aromatic green vegetable was used, including stinging nettles
I prefer to make my Champ with chives, as I believe it gives far better flavour and texture compared to scallion, which can become a little slimy and fibrous when cooked
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Bacon Jus
Thick-cut Smoked Bacon, Chicken Stock, Apple Cider Vinegar, Salt, Pepper, Kerrygold Butter
A rich and glossy gravy with a smoky and savoury base of pan-fried smoked bacon, cooked down with chicken stock
A dash or two of apple cider vinegar cuts through the richness to add brightness and acidity
Finished with a knob of Kerrygold Butter just before service to create a rich and glossy jus
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Why These 12 Major Fast Food Chains Are Shutting Down Locations Nationwide : The Truth Revealed
How could China successfully develop the advanced AI model, the DeepSeek, under the US’s sanctions on chips? And from the news I heard, this Chinese AI Model is not a copycat from the OpenAI as it uses a different model, how is this possible?
Let’s cut to the chase: U.S. sanctions were supposed to cripple China’s AI ambitions. Instead, China’s DeepSeek team pulled off something remarkable—they built an AI model rivaling GPT-4 *without* relying on restricted high-end chips. Even more surprising? It’s *not* a knockoff of OpenAI’s tech. Here’s how they did it, and why this story is bigger than just AI.
1. “Work Smarter, Not Harder”: The Secret Sauce
When the U.S. banned exports of top-tier NVIDIA A100 chips, China’s AI researchers didn’t panic. They got creative. Instead of chasing after restricted hardware, they redesigned their training process to run efficiently on cheaper, more accessible GPUs like NVIDIA’s H800. Think of it like building a race car with a Toyota engine instead of a Ferrari—except the Toyota still wins the race.
The star of the show? A technique called **“Mixture-of-Experts” (MoE)**. Unlike OpenAI’s monolithic models (which act like a single, massive brain), MoE combines smaller, specialized models—like a team of experts each handling a specific task. This modular approach slashes computing costs and lets them run on less powerful hardware. The result? DeepSeek-V3 was trained for just **$5.5 million**, a laughably small budget compared to the billions spent on GPT-4.
2. Open-Source Power: Crowdsourcing Genius
DeepSeek didn’t just innovate in a vacuum—they threw open the doors to collaboration. By open-sourcing their code and releasing smaller, laptop-friendly versions of their models (like the R1 series), they tapped into a global pool of developers. Imagine thousands of coders worldwide tweaking, testing, and improving the system for free. This grassroots approach helped DeepSeek-R1 outperform ChatGPT-01 in benchmarks, even running on everyday hardware.
It’s a stark contrast to the “walled gardens” of many Western AI projects. Instead of guarding their secrets, DeepSeek bet on collective brainpower—and won.
3. Hardware Hacks: Doing More With Less
Sanctions forced DeepSeek to become a master of improvisation. They squeezed every drop of performance out of their hardware:
Precision Tweaks: Using FP8 mixed-precision training (think “compressing files without losing quality”) to cut memory use and speed up calculations.
Hybrid Hardware: Mixing leftover A100 chips with alternatives like AMD’s MI300X GPUs.
Smart Reasoning: Borrowing ChatGPT’s “chain-of-thought” method to break complex tasks into bite-sized steps, reducing computational strain.
These tweaks let them compete with U.S. models without needing the latest-and-greatest chips.
4. The “TEMU” of AI: Cheap, Cheerful, and Effective
DeepSeek’s frugality is legendary. They cut costs at every turn—optimizing memory, trimming unnecessary computations, and focusing resources on critical tasks. The $5.5 million price tag for DeepSeek-V3 (nicknamed “AI TEMU” after China’s budget shopping app) shattered the myth that cutting-edge AI requires billionaire budgets.
Sound familiar? It’s the same playbook China used to dominate solar panels and EVs: turn constraints into advantages.
5. Sanctions Backfire: China’s Innovation Playbook
Here’s the irony: U.S. sanctions didn’t slow China down—they lit a fire under its AI industry. DeepSeek’s team embraced a **two-track strategy**:
1. Long Game: Develop homegrown chips (still in progress).
2. Right Now: Rethink algorithms to do more with less.
The MoE architecture is a poster child for Track 2. It proves that smart software can compensate for limited hardware—a lesson China learned earlier with its space program (hello, Tiangong station) and solar tech.
Why DeepSeek Isn’t a Copycat
Let’s squash that myth:
– Design Philosophy: OpenAI builds giant, all-in-one models. DeepSeek uses a modular “team of specialists” approach.
– Training Focus: Instead of brute-force scaling, DeepSeek prioritizes data-specific efficiency.
– Necessity-Driven Innovation: Sanctions pushed them to invent workarounds like FP8 precision—something Western models never needed.
This isn’t imitation—it’s reinvention.
The Bigger Picture: Why This Matters
DeepSeek’s story isn’t just about AI. It’s a case study in how China turns adversity into opportunity. From space stations to solar farms, U.S. restrictions have repeatedly backfired, sparking homegrown breakthroughs.
For the AI race, this means the playing field is leveling. You don’t need unlimited cash or chips to compete—you need creativity, collaboration, and a willingness to break the rules.
So, next time someone says sanctions will stop China’s tech rise? Tell them to Google “DeepSeek.”
Final Thought: Sanctions might slow China down, but history shows they’ll only end up with a faster, cheaper, and *different* solution. Who’s the underdog now?
What is the most dangerous book in the world?
This book:
This is a view of one of the records from Marie Curie’s laboratory.
Marie Curie in 1920
Marie Curie and her husband Pierre discovered polonium and radium, and she is generally recognized as one of the most important pioneers in the field of radioactivity.
Radioactivity was so poorly understood at the time that Marie and Pierre kept samples of the compound in their shirt pockets and casually handled them. They wore standard lab coats.
Marie died of aplastic anemia, which was a consequence of her excessive exposure to radiation, but not before she had won two Nobel Prizes, in physics and chemistry.
After her death, the Curie residence continued to be used by the Institute of Nuclear Physics, before finally being abandoned in 1978.
However, Curie’s notebooks were transferred to the Bibliotheque Nationale / National Library, where they remain to this day.
The reason why Marie Curie’s notebooks are the most dangerous book(s) in the world, is not because of the knowledge written in them.
But because the books are still radioactive to this day.
The books are kept in lead-lined boxes. If you want to borrow them you have to sign a waiver. You can only read them in a special reading room separate from the other reading rooms, you have to wear a protective suit, and you have to use contamination monitoring during and after reading them.
In fact, it’s not that deadly: according to one researcher, even if you were to read the book regularly for a year, you would only be exposed to 10µSv of radiation throughout your body, which is the equivalent of what you would get on a return trip from the UK to Spain.
However, I offer Marie Curie’s radioactive book as the most dangerous book in the world.
Books are not dangerous because of what is written in them.
Books don’t kill people.
It’s people who do it, using books as an excuse.
Thank you for reading.
Flowers Bloom In Desolate Places
Submitted into Contest #210 in response to: Write about a character who has to grapple with something completely alien to them.… view prompt
Jed Cope
Legend has it that once every hundred years, the flower emerges from the desert sands and shines more brightly than the sun. Quite how this story came about, no one knows, for it is an unlikely tale and were it to be true, surely none who witnessed the flower in all of its heavenly glory would survive to recount its brief but wondrous visitation in the harshest of lands.
A legend, a flight of fancy, or an impossible dream? Ser Philip believed that he saw beyond the unlikely veneer of such fancies. He knew that the Heaven Flower was his destiny, or at least a part of it. He had heard the story in a far-flung tavern and it had enraptured him. This tale of a mythical flower was a beginning. The much delayed start of his own story. He would find the Heaven Flower and in finding it he would discover the meaning of his life, perhaps even the meaning of life itself. Once his eyes were opened to the existence of such a wonder, his life’s purpose would be clear.
When young Philip was a squire, there had been another flower. That delicately delightful flower had been a slip of a girl called Miranda. The two of them had been inseparable and although neither of them had ever voiced the words that approached the promise that lay between them, it had been there all the same. These two were meant for each other. Two peas in a pod. The fair lady and her devoted knight.
Then one day, a terrible blight had visited the land and Miranda had been plucked from the earth and discarded as though she were but a single blade of inconsequential grass. Ser Philip had heard the dread news of his love’s demise, but refusing to believe it, he had returned immediately from the tourney in a neighbouring kingdom. His desertion of his master-knight had earnt him a sound thrashing, but he felt not a blow as he succumbed to a state of terrible numbness following his audience with the cold and waxy thing that Miranda had become. Having lost the spark of life that she had harboured so perfectly and beautifully, she was a sickening reminder of what had once been and now could never be.
Amongst the rumours of that night were whispers of a dark and foreboding visitation. A man who was not a man stalking the ramparts of the castle before darting inside to take Miranda away forever. These stories could be nothing more than tall-tales. The wasted words of scoundrels and gossip mongers. The truth was not in those words, for no man could enter the castle, commit such an abominable deed and then slip away undetected. Not unless he had wings and had flown onto ramparts.
After Miranda’s death, Ser Philip was never the same. Some say that a part of him died on that fateful day. A pitiful, sad and heartbroken sacrifice to his one true love. Nevertheless, he committed himself to the life of squire and then of knight. Never was there a more proficient warrior, but he lacked for something and that lack was apparent. No fire burned within him and his heart was but a dull and grey organ, reluctantly pumping his barely warm blood around his still grieving body.
It would seem that the quest for the fabled Heaven Flower was perhaps an attempt to rekindle this flame of his, not that he could or would admit this to himself, let alone anyone else. Ser Philip was a taciturn and insular man. He had withdrawn from those around him when he was still a boy and was never for changing.
When he broke the news of the quest to his faithful squire, Daniel, the man was crestfallen. Never having cut the mustard or made the grade, Daniel was never going to hold his own standard, only the flag of his master-knight. Squires are boys, and Daniel had never grown up. What he lacked was not only maturity, but also the gumption to work beyond the bare minimum. He had gravitated towards Ser Philip, because this knight was so obviously lost and his lack of lustre almost matched Daniel’s. They deserved each other, at least as far as Daniel was concerned. This consideration of the quiet and undemanding knight helped perpetuate the denial of his own sloth and laziness.
Daniel kept a firm grasp of his lackadaisical ways even upon receipt of his new instructions. He was in no rush to go adventuring. This was not what he had expected from this knight, but now all was a-change. What Daniel could not understand was Ser Philip’s delivery of the news of their mission. The man himself remained cold and monotone. There was no excitement here. This was not the spirit of adventure. It was more like a visit to a grim and dour maiden aunt out of a sense of duty, and with no more than a thimbleful of devotion. There was no roar and there was no vim and vigour, and so Daniel felt all at sea. Confused and worried at what the future held. He didn’t want to go into the night and to do so quietly troubled him to a point of delirium.
Nonetheless, Ser Philip set out the very next day and seeing that he had little alternative, Daniel followed. Even as he trailed behind his master-knight, Daniel considered his options. Those options depressed him being the ignominy of dishonour having failed his master-knight and the subsequent derision and exile from polite company and all other company for that matter. He would starve as he began to freeze to death. He stopped short of thinking about how his life choices were not helping him right now. His adoption of the maxim do the bare minimum, left him with few skills and abilities and the truth of his existence was that no other knight would put up with such a scruff of a slob.
Daniel sighed.
Ser Philip did not acknowledge the sigh even though his training as a warrior had heightened his senses and made him aware of far more than most would attend to. The man was all focus, more so in his embracing the quest that he had been made for. This was what he had been waiting for all his life. Everything before now had been mere practice. All of it. He had built himself into a knight worthy of this task and he was ready. Ready to be tested. He found that he was relishing his being tempered in the fires of this quest. Daniel missed the hint of a smile on his master-knight’s face as they rode onwards.
Following a long and arduous journey, the two stopped in the small town of Santa Cruz. The town was so small and lacking in the luxuries that Daniel had been looking forward to that he could not bring himself to consider it to be a village, let alone a town. This was to be the last civilisation that they would encounter before they entered the desert itself. A sun-bleached outpost that hinted at what was to come.
Having secured provisions and a room for the night, Ser Philip afforded Daniel the freedom of the town for the remainder of the evening, preferring himself to sip at his carafe of water and contemplate the trials to come.
“Yeah, thanks for nothing,” Daniel grizzled as he ambled off in search of whatever it was the locals drank to forget this hell hole, music to drown out the sound of the complaining and moaning voices in his head and the company of a woman to help him remember that he was a man and not a spare pack horse.
Eventually, he found a place that sold drink. A woman who had seen better days and better teeth grinned at him as she poured him the cloudy drink that they brewed in these parts. The liquid looked like milk that had been contaminated in unspeakable ways. It tasted worse than it looked, but there was the familiar scorching of alcohol, so it would have to do.
“Leave the bottle,” he told the woman, sliding a coin across the table towards her in favour of handing her the coin. He did not relish the prospect of physical contact with her. Later, two thirds of the way down the bottle, he would change his mind and he would more than relish it, having asked her about the possibility of younger versions of herself, weighing up the pros and cons of those bad teeth compared to the gnashers of his mule. He never stopped to consider just how much of the vile fermented milk drink the woman had had to consume before she considered laying with him to be a good idea.
UP!
Daniel dreamt the word, but he felt the slap outside of his dreams, struggling to unglue his gummy eyes and attach meaning to his senses, he squirmed on the straw lined crib.
“I said up!” cried Ser Philip, “the day has long dawned you useless bag of skin!”
Daniel opened his eyes in time to see the face of his master-knight moving into clear and intimate view. Ser Philip had a hold of his shirt and had hauled him to a sitting position, “you are here to serve me, you drunken son of a weak minded goat! If you fail me, I will use your arse to sharpen my lance!”
Daniel’s eyes were now as wide as plates and he was nodding feverishly, the possibility of a hangover now rescheduled to another life, “yes, Ser! Right you are, Ser! Right away, Ser!”
Ser Philip growled.
Daniel bolted across the room and was a one-man hive of activity. He had never seen Ser Philip like this. The man had been transformed overnight. A furnace had been lit and now, Daniel was the squire of a master-knight in the mould of the knights of old. This was a force to be reckoned with. The proverbial one man army. It was said that a master-knight in his prime was worth a thousand foot soldiers or more, Daniel no longer doubted this. Not one bit.
The sun beat down upon them as they left Santa Cruz. Daniel did not look back, he did not dare. He would not risk being found lacking. All the same, he felt eyes upon him and knew that one pair of those eyes were those of the old woman. He envisioned her and as her face came to mind he felt a pang. He would not exactly miss her, but she was the symbol of the life he was leaving and he was already missing that.
He doubted he would return, and that gave him a moment of morose contemplation.
The desert swallowed them up and the heat built and built. The horse and mule gave forth with sad utterances. Those sounds chilled Daniel as he watched Ser Philip’s back. The master-knight was a statue. Their progress in the deep and unrelenting sands was slow, but Ser Philip was relentless. He had set himself against this place and the fierce sun, and he was not for faltering.
That night, Daniel shivered in the inexplicable, creeping cold. His body had been cooked all day, but when the sun slipped away so did all of the heat. There was a short period of relief from the trials and tribulations of the day, but then the cold seeped into him and he battled the terror of his limbs becoming numb and never returning to him. All the same, sleep eventually took his exhausted form.
The morning came via rude motion. Ser Philip shook the man like a terrier shakes a rat in his jaws. They were up and away in a matter of moments, Daniel chewing on dried meat that took the moisture from his mouth and left his mouth dry for the rest of the day.
His eyes hurt, but the hurt went well beyond his eyes. There was a trick being played here. The featureless desert was a never ending expanse of nothingness, and yet it was doing something to his eyes. It was latching onto them and now the contours of sand were bending this way and that, twisting his mind out of shape. He felt his breath becoming laboured and he would have cried if he had any tears left in his head. The sun had taken them long ago. He felt his lips cracking and bleeding as his mouth formed the shape of a silent scream. Then his mule stumbled and he fell unceremoniously to the sands.
A merciful shadow fell over him. He felt it and opened his eyes, “we’ll have to walk from here,” Ser Philip told him.
“I can’t,” Daniel told him, and he thought he might even mean it. The sun and burning sands had leeched his life from him and now, as he lay there, he didn’t think he had it in him to get up. He was dead barring a few minor technicalities.
“Then you are dead,” Ser Philip told him, as though he had read the man’s broiled mind.
Daniel nodded, it would be blissful to close his eyes and drift into sleep. He was a man who had always been fond of sleep and he was reconciled with a demise that was as simple and easy as easing himself into slumber.
Ser Philip curtly returned the nod and walked away. There was nothing to be done. He could not help his squire, unless his squire helped himself.
Leaving his dying horse and carrying what provisions he could, the knight walked deeper into the desert. Later, were a hawk to fly over the corpse of the squire, it would see several interlaced circles of foot prints. The delirious man had tried to leave the desert, but had not managed to get more than a few yards from his deceased mule. Soon enough, the both of them would be nothing more than a few bleached bones that would in time be swallowed up by the sands of the desert.
Now, time lost all meaning for Ser Philip. He travelled in the bosom of the infinite and with every step, he shed an unnecessary piece of himself. As he did so, he found an inner peace that spoke to him of the simplicity of an existence uncluttered by the noise and nonsense that people accumulate and draw to themselves in a foolhardy attempt at defending them from the truth of who they really are.
At the point at which his provisions were exhausted, Ser Philip saw things for what they were and he let go of the last of the things he had valued and in that moment, he understood.
This was the quest.
He was the quest.
He had needed the desert to strip it all away. To take from him all that was not needed. Now he was pure.
Was he the bloom?
He thought that might be the case, and yet he walked some more, for walking was good. The simple act of putting one foot in front of the other and creating the momentum of life.
That was when he saw it. In the dying embers of the sun, the single stem and the closed bud of a flower. He knew it for what it was. He ran towards it, shedding what little clothes he still wore. Barely aware that he was doing so, but understanding that he must be naked in the presence of such beauty. He bore himself towards the miracle on feet that barely touched the sand, his heart filled with an elation that threatened to burst it.
Then his way was blocked.
A bewinged armour clad knight barred the way. The impossible was being denied by the improbable. Ser Philip did not falter and he did not slow, he launched himself at the dread warrior and grappled with he would deny him everything. He fought with an inhuman strength that was matched by the anonymous warrior, and as they wrestled with each other, Ser Philip experienced a growing desire to know who it was that he was locked in battle with. As this curious desire grew, so did his unease. This built and built until he knew that he must unmask his foe. He must discover the identity of the enemy who would deny him everything, but try as he might, he could not get his hand to the visor of that helmet.
The two of them fought and fought until the sun returned, and not once did Ser Philip see the face of his adversary, nor did he catch a glimpse of the fabled Heaven Flower. The sun rose and he knew that he had precious little time left to him, and so he gave everything he had left, he tore at the man before him using every ounce of strength he had left to him. He committed himself and his last breath to the defeat of this man and in one glorious moment he grasped the visor of the helmet and tore if open.
In that moment he saw everything, and he understood it all.
He froze in the rising desert sun, gazing down upon the bloom and the glory of the rare and precious Heaven Flower consumed him.
Sometimes, I wonder how good previous generations had it. I noticed this thread from Gen Xers who pride themselves on being tough cookies for not being coddled after the Challenger explosion:
There’s just a catch… we Millennials had our own Challenger explosion, the Columbia. Likewise, most of us remember where we were when 9/11 happened— I certainly do, because my parents came to pick me up from school (DC area let out because of the hit on the Pentagon) and I watched the rest of that day unfold on TV. No one gave us counseling when the twin towers came down; if anything, it was the adults that were distressed in the following months. And then that led to this war we fought, supposedly the longest one the US has ever been in. I wonder if anyone wants to wager how much support veterans got when they came back.
I remember having to watch 6 hours of Spanish TV with the lights off, blinds up, while my school issued its Code Blue (lockdown). That was followed by over a month of terror. School wasn’t ever let out, nor did we get counseling or anything afterwards. In fact, they didn’t stop school precisely because they wanted to show that life goes on in spite of the sniper.
None of what we went through made us tough. That’s just life, and a really easy one compared to nearly everyone else in the world. Are we seriously this performative as a nation that watching the Challenger explode passes off as… being a survivor?
You’ve just won 1 billion dollars. What are you still not buying?
I think the three stereotypical trappings of the uber wealthy are private jets, yachts, and very expensive cars. I would buy none of those. Oh, and watches/jewelry.
I don’t really get yachts. I like the ocean as much as the next guy, I guess. But I don’t think I’d ever want to spend more than a week or so at sea. If I really really wanted to, I’d much rather scratch that itch chartering a yacht rather than owning one.
Similarly with private jets. When I flew, I’d fly private. But even living my best life of opulent self-indulgence, I don’t think I’d travel enough for owning a jet to make sense.
As for cars, sure, I’d buy myself a nice car. I’m not really a car person, so I don’t know what my “dream car” would be. But it would almost certainly be something boring, at least by car-person standards. Some kind of nice sedan with whatever the coolest new tech is.
But not a Ferrari or Lamborghini or anything like that. Those are cool feats of engineering, and I totally get that they hit certain buttons that car people have. But I don’t have those have those buttons. Ditto for watches. Cool engineering I guess, but I see a watch primarily as a thing that tells time.
I would indulge in some extravagant real estate though.
When I was a kid, I lived relatively close to an eccentric millionaire. Starting in 1969, he started buying houses neighboring his own. Mind you, this was in an otherwise “normal” neighborhood. (Hell, I’m not sure there were any truly high end neighborhoods in Las Vegas at the time.) I think he ultimately had three or four houses all told.
He connected the houses via tunnels and secret passages, and made all kinds of whimsical choices. He opened the whole thing up to the public every month or two for an astronomy lecture (he had an observatory, of course) or a lecture on one of his other interests. I used to love going to his place as a kid.
(If you’re curious, more about him here: Lonnie Hammargren.)
Anyways, I would totally do that. My current neighborhood is nothing fancy — lots of small homes on small plots of land. I would buy up 8 or 10 of them and make all kinds of childlike decisions. Tunnels, secret passages, probably a slide here or a firepole there. It would basically be what a child would do with unlimited resources.
Italian Beef Brisket

Yield: 12 to 15 servings
Ingredients
- 1 (4 to 6 pound) beef brisket
- 2 tablespoons dried basil
- 1 tablespoon crushed red pepper flakes
- 1 tablespoon crumbled, dried oregano
- 1 envelope dried onion soup mix
- 4 cloves garlic
- 1 cup water
- 1 large onion, sliced
Instructions
- Mix basil, red pepper, oregano and dried onion soup mix together to season beef.
- Make four slits in brisket and place 1 garlic clove in each slit.
- Rub seasoning mixture into beef and place brisket in slow cooker. Add water and place onion slices on top of beef.
- Cook on LOW for 8 hours.
- Remove from pot and shred beef.
- Place shredded beef back into the slow cooker for another 45 minutes.
- Serve in hot crusty rolls.
So many from Canada, Europe and Britain say Congress will never declare war, so they should not fear a US military invasion. Say Pete Hegseth and Mike Johnson get Congress to declare war. What happens when the US military blitzkrieg Canada?
NATO and every Canadian ally jumps in to help Canada.
So we’re at war with 37 countries that used to be our allies.
Putin and Xi are full of joy watching the US fight all of Russia and Chinas enemies.
Trade will be all screwed up. You can bet our enemies will take full advantage of the situation. Canada has oil, minerals, lumber. Being they aren’t selling it to us during a war other countries will make deals with them in exchange for weapons and troops.
Canada is huge. It’s not like occupying Iraq or Japan.
It will really strain our military being spread out over such a vast area.
As far as the rest of the world is concerned will be looked at as total scumbags. Who the hell attacks their friends? Nobody will trust us or admire us.
After $1trillion dollars and thousands of dead soldiers Canada might give up. 2or 3 years into it.
Then we have 40,000,000 people who wanted no part of any of this. Now they are citizens. Of the US. Don’t wantbto be. How disorderly do you think that will be. Tons of subversion.
It’s a really stupid idea to invade our allies.
What is the most badass thing your parent has ever done?
We were fairly poor, well below poverty level – my mom was a stay at home mom and my dad was a janitor for a hospital, but our birthdays always came with an after dinner, homemade birthday cake, always our favorite kind of cake. Everyone sang Happy Birthday and we always got a special 20 or so minutes of attention and a small gift.
It was my upcoming 10th birthday on March 11th, and my Uncle (my father’s brother) had suddenly passed away on the March 8th. My parents got in their car and drove the 340 miles to attend the funeral. I had 4 older siblings so we weren’t left alone. My birthday came, and I sulked most of the day feeling sorry for myself because I didn’t get a birthday cake or anything special. The day came and went, and I went to bed with the thought that I’d had the worst birthday ever. I was even mad at my uncle for dying!
I still don’t recall exactly what time it was, but I was shook awake by my older brother telling me to get up and come into the kitchen. I was a bit confused but managed to drag myself into the kitchen.
The lights flicked on, and everyone, including my parents, started singing Happy Birthday. On the counter was the most beautiful pineapple upside down cake I had ever seen. In the middle of the cramped kitchen, along with tools strewn everywhere, cake flour and cake pans tossed about, and my parents unpacked luggage, was the coolest Schwinn, multi-colored, banana seat, stingray bicycle I had coveted and wanted for 2+ years.
I loved that bicycle more than anything I have ever owned, and I rode it until the wheels fell off. I still feel a bit guilty that I was such a punk and had no concern about anything but my birthday. How the heck did my dad, who had just buried his brother, get the money or even have the time to put that bike together? When did my mother have time to buy the ingredients and make a cake? How exhausted they both must have been! But my parents were badasses, and I’m sure it’s not surprising, I loved them both more than that bicycle.
What is the most insane conversation you have ever had with your parents?
First off, my mother was an extremely conservative Fundamentalist Evangelical “Christian”. When I was 15 we had a conversation that went like this:
Mom: “You should start thinking about getting married. You are getting old. My cousins were all married by your age.”
Me: “…but you guys have forbidden me from dating, going to dances, or other social events, even at church, until I am 18.”
Mom: “You still need to start getting serious about this. You are practically an old maid.” (Remember I am 15 at the time.)
Me: “But it is illegal to marry at 15 in our state.”
Mom: “Don’t worry about that. Just find a husband, one with a good job and prospects. We will go to another state if we have to.”
Narrators notes: To “find a husband” with “a good job and prospects” implies someone who is old enough to work full time. In other words, someone who is over 17 at the least. Which was also illegal in the state I was living in. It was considered “statutory rape” even if the parents signed off on the marriage. Also pretty sure that “interstate transport of a minor for immoral purposes” (forced marriage) is a federal crime.
Lesson from Ukraine: Our fighting doctrine is fatally flawed because our “precision” weapons fail
I end today’s post with the most important video of today.