Inflation. Gas Prices. Food shortages. Popular unrest. Shootings, car jacking, diversity, racial protests. Anger. Collapse of this or that…
All of these items are fixtures of the United States and it’s proxy nations; known collectively as “The West”. Don’t project that on Russia. Don’t project that on China. Don’t project that on Africa. Etc.
Just a kind reminder to all of youse guys who fall for the idea that the “entire world” is going to suffer from famine, inflation and energy shortages. It’s not. Just YOUR NATION. The rest are doing just fine, thank you.
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A Cat Owner speaks out
I had a friend who suggested euthanizing my two Siamese cats, because of the cat hair on the furniture.
I took these two in as soon as I got my own place after my mom died. They were her cats. My stepfather barely took care of them. They got food and water but the litter box was very dirty and they weren’t vaccinated, or taken to the vet for check-ups. They didn’t get any love.
Back then I lived on 600e per month in an expensive tiny two room apartment, but the cats got the love they needed. One of them wasn’t spayed, so I took care of that as well.
They were so important to me. Suffice to say the girl who made that suggestion is not my friend anymore.
After my two beloved Siamese cats died of old age (luckily they had some years in a bigger home), I got two rescues. And then another Siamese.
I discovered I can’t do life without cats.
Don’t ever tell your friend who is a cat person that she should euthanize her cats. You will be removed, the cats will stay. I can promise you that.
Matthew worked this evening and a homeless gentlemen walked in the restaurant with .50 cents and asked if there was anything on the menu he could buy. Matthew asked him what he would order if he could and the man said anything would help his hunger pains. So Matthew rung him up for a hearty meal and then used his own debit card to pay for the mans meal. He handed him the receipt and told him to relax and take a seat. The story could end there and It would be a happy ending, but apparently a women watched my son during his random act of kindness. Not only did she write the company to let them know about the caring employee they had working for them, she also rewarded my son with a very generous tip! ”So proud to be his mom and I can pat myself on the back knowing that I’ve played a part in raising this big hearted young man.”
What a wonderful young man! Wish there were more like him.
Do I really admit to supporting the CPC?
From HERE
Most of what we know in the west about China is wrong: we read articles, see, hear news reports, there are even books about how China is economically collapsing but they’ve been saying it for over 20 years and China, including Hong Kong has 135 companies listed in the Fortune 500; that’s more than any other country in the world including the USA which only has 122
Foreign investment has steadily grown and, globally, China is the number one recipient. This is because, despite what we hear, people who know the best places to put money, know that stability and good legislation will protect their investment.
We read that China is authoritarian or totalitarian but, if you’ve watched anything about China, you’ve seen people, including people like me, travelling freely and posting videos from all over the country including “sensitive” areas such as Tibet and Xinjiang.
Thousands, no: tens of thousands of videos are online showing life going on as normal. Traveling through those areas, as I often do and am even doing right now, Southwest China’s Chongqing, the “totalitarian police” never stop me, or anyone else to ask what pictures we’ve taken. They’ve never confiscated any photographs or videos, even from media organizations who deliberately goad police into forcing them to stop filming in public places where individuals have asked them not to film. If they had, you could be assured, you would have seen it in media.
The country has crime, like anywhere else but it’s reducing every year in every category except online fraud. The murder rate in China has seen a steady decline and is now around 0.5 per 100,000 people: compared to the USA where, according to some news reports, it’s at its highest rate in many years of 6 per 100,000 and in some places, such as Birmingham, Alabama, Baltimore in Maryland, just next to Washington DC where it’s over 50 per 100,000 and St Louis Missouri, where, in 2019 the number went up to 64.5 people killed per 100,000. Here’s what’s even more frightening, those numbers of 3 years ago, have risen.
Looking at education, students get 9 years of free education and, at 57.8%, more Chinese students enter tertiary education than almost every other country. That number grows every year from only 3.4% in 1990. China’s education modernization plan is aligned to support the modernization and future growth of the country and is so cheap the concept of student debt is virtually unknown.
Social security laws mean that working people receive medical insurance, unemployment insurance for the day the unthinkable happens and they may lose their jobs but unemployment is declining at 5.5% and the government has put in some emergency strategies to help recovery since the Covid pandemic.
Young employees pay into housing funds to help them purchase their first home and a pension fund which they can claim when they retire at 50 or 55 for women and 60 for men.
Let’s be honest, if China didn’t have good social security and employment protection laws, ethical companies in the west wouldn’t come and work here yet as of last year more than 1.06 million foreign companies were registered and operating in China, this was 23,000 more than the year before.
China isn’t a collapsing economy, it’s still growing; nor is it a slave labour force, or more than a million foreign registered companies wouldn’t work here and, if we read beyond western headlines, we find workers are well rewarded and well protected.
It’s not a totalitarian police state but it is well policed and as a result, it’s safe and people value that ability to walk anywhere at any time with a feeling of security and, contrary to what many people think most Chinese people have a very high regard and respect for their local police.
So, if it’s not all the things that the “experts and China watchers” say it is: what else have they and the international media got wrong?
Well, they get China’s governance wrong too. China is growing in health, education, economy, infrastructure and improved living conditions at a time when other countries are entering, or have already entered a recession.
Looking at other more developed countries, what can we see?
Bank Interest rates are going up and almost everyone has some debt;
Fuel costs are increasing so decisions will need to be made soon on whether to eat or keep warm
Poverty rates are rising, as more and more people fall into that position where they can no longer afford to have an apartment, good clothes and food, they need to choose which to miss out on.
Crime rates are increasing in almost every American city, violent crime and property theft are coming to point where they are out of control and the only solution seems to be give more money to the police
Public disorder has increased in recent years as there’s more dissatisfaction with police having more power, using more violence and even in one notable country, killing more civilians than ever before.
Life spans are declining as people in some developed countries are dying younger than they used to. This has been brought about by mismanagement of a pandemic but is also partially caused by some people who simply can’t afford to go to a hospital.
China on the other hand has none of these problems and the reason for that is good governance. Who provides that governance? The CPC. But what’s really important to remember is not what they do, but how they do it.
Every year, each leader in China reports on what they’ve achieved. They provide information on their plans for what they will achieve in the coming period to meet with the goals of the 5-year plan. When they look for promotions, they enter a process of selection and approval but only after getting endorsement from their peers, their supervisors and even their subordinates.
If they fail to meet their objectives or if they haven’t managed things well, they are removed, as has been seen in some notable incidences particularly around the management of the Covid pandemic.
Senior leaders are elected by Party organizations so, in order to become a leader in a Chinese community, you need a combination of experience, voting and managerial efficiency, these are the only ways to get ahead in Chinese governance.
China doesn’t really have politicians, it has bureaucrats, they are politically savvy as all politicians need to be but they must also be popular with their peers and the people they serve. And remember, they serve the people not their donors.
In America, it’s possible to be a popular TV personality or a mediocre lawyer and still go on to become a President. If you can make it to the Senate or Congress, there are no term limits, we’ve recently seen octogenarian politicians stirring up discontent around the globe. There’s no age limit so a 78 year old who ought to be retired can make it into the White House and potentially stay there until they’re 86.
The UK isn’t much better, they’ve recently lost an inefficient and bumbling prime minister who seemed to forget that truth and honesty were part of his responsibilities. He wasn’t elected by the people, his own party put him there, the same as they do in China. He doesn’t have term limits and neither do Australia, New Zealand, Canada or many other democracies, so why did it cause such a stir when China removed something from their statute that most countries in the world don’t believe in anyway?
What qualifications did the last prime minister of the UK have? He was a failed journalist. What qualifications did the last prime minister of Australia have? He was a failed marketing manager. Neither of these leaders were elected to the head of their parties by the people they represent, they were both put into that position by their parties and failed because they didn’t have the qualifications, the integrity or both, to do their job properly.
Now, people can say but at least we were able to vote them out. Maybe that’s true but how much damage can they do in the four years or five years before you get the opportunity to do that?
In China on the other hand, there may only be one party but those people who lead it got there through a proven track record of administrative success in lesser roles. Xi Jinping for example, holds a degree in chemical engineering and a Doctor in Law and started his government career as party secretary in a Shaanxi village, and has held leadership roles in several provinces as well as the city of Shanghai; which has a population larger than Australia and several European countries.
Li Kejiang holds a Bachelor of Law and a PhD in economics and has worked his entire life in administrative roles.
In fact, every member of China’s senior government can demonstrate a proven track record of management, efficiency and knowledge. They have all been elected to the position by others who are equally as well experienced in their own jobs.
Only through hard work, extensive study, a process of election and selection is it possible to reach the top in China’s governance.
So, do I support the CPC? Actually, I do, I’ve seen what they can do, I’ve seen how well they do it and, when I compare it to other countries I know about, I can see there’s no comparison. It’s quite obvious why the Chinese government has the support of almost 100% of the people they represent.
What isn’t so obvious is why so many people who are not Chinese would like to change that.
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If the Chinese system is so effective, why does it only work in China and isn’t being adopted by other developing nations?
Most Chinese clearly understand that China’s current system is in fact the result of a passive choice, and a pragmatic one.
Many of the respondents here with Chinese cultural backgrounds mentioned the Chinese civil bureaucratic tradition, so I don’t need to explain it in detail, but I would add that China is probably the only country that had a strong civil bureaucratic tradition before modernization, and that the later system had to adapt to the civil bureaucratic tradition rather than the other way around, which leads to an innate limitation in terms of viable institutional choices for China now and even for the future.
I still have to mention two famous emperors, the first of course being First Emperor of Qin, Ying Zheng.
It is well known that King Zheng did two main things in China, the first being that he de facto unified China, and the second being that he unified Chinese writing. These two crucial facts offered all subsequent Chinese powers that be the possibility that if their power was sufficient, he would definitely unify China. This led to a unique historical phenomenon, as the opening chapter of “The Romance of the Three Kingdoms” states, “That which is long divided must unify, and that which is long unified must divide.” This also led to the loss of the roots of China’s feudal aristocratic tradition similar to that of the West, and after numerous struggles and natural selection, you could only have one aristocrat, and that aristocrat was the emperor.
Well, we then introduce another emperor, Emperor Wen of Sui, Yang Jian.
Soon, the emperors ruling China realized that any nobleman with a fief and a private army, whether he was a relative or a brother, was aiming to “unify China,” so all nobles would in fact become enemies of the emperor. A wise emperor, or Yang Jian as we call him, quickly figured out that if he did not rely on the nobility to rule the country, he would have to rely on the commoners. Obviously, making the commoners the ruling class would require teaching them the knowledge of the ruling class and setting the threshold for the best talent to become the emperor’s servants. From then on, Yang Jian set up the imperial examination system to give the commoners the possibility to leap up the ladder of the commoner class and to destroy the aristocratic tradition completely.
When the imperial examination system was established, there were several factors that needed to be noted.
- The avenue of upward mobility for the commoner class was opened and could never be closed because the commoners had a strong desire to change their fate, the bureaucratic clique was extremely powerful, and no ruler dared to challenge this, which I think is easy to understand.
- No matter how dynasties change, they only change the structure of the ruling class for a short time, and when power is rebalanced, it is still the same people who become the actual managers of this country through exams, and no matter who becomes emperor, those who have the ability and will to become civil bureaucrats always become civil bureaucrats, and they always make the same decisions.
- A large number of the commoner class became part of the bureaucratic group by learning the knowledge of the ruling class, that is, the Confucian doctrine, which was the only way for the commoners to break through the class. This led to a near overlap between the intellectual and bureaucratic classes in China, and at the same time, it meant that in China, learning knowledge and preparing to be an official were equated, so there was no ground for the birth of natural science in China. In the West, the early scientists were usually aristocrats or missionaries, and there is a reason for that. Because they were provided for, they did not have to think about survival and had extra resources to complete their scholarship. Their Chinese counterparts during the same period, on the other hand, despite being no less talented and capable, needed to devote more energy to taking exams, handling government affairs, and completing their higher authorities’ KPIs, and when they did their jobs well, they would be promoted. There are always unfamiliar environments and more complex challenges waiting for them. Of course there were certain geniuses who did a better job of governance by summarizing techniques, such as Shen Kuo, but of course, technique is not the same as science.
- Since the position of officials in the bureaucratic group depends only on exams and KPI’s and has nothing to do with their own wealth, this leads to the fact that mercantilism has never appeared in China and capital has never been strong enough to confront the bureaucratic class, only because the former holds the economy and the latter holds the state apparatus, they may become allies for short-term interests, but once the interests go against each other, it is always the businessmen who are deprived of power. Thus, capital is always a vassal of the bureaucratic group.
- The ruling class was constantly on the move because of examinations, and the official in a high position knew this, he had no other choice but to provide his offspring with better educational resources, however this did not guarantee that his family would always retain this advantage, so he had to try to reinforce the class advantage by buying land, therefore the fall of every Chinese dynasty was always due to excessive land annexation, which could not be avoided.
To be fair, a strong bureaucratic system is a double-edged sword. First of all, the system is extremely executive and feasibility, with every policy being passed from the center to every corner of the empire with the precision of a cog. At the same time, this system was always able to screen the most capable geniuses into the management system of the empire, which was the core advantage of China to remain competitive for thousands of years. However, people are always selfish, especially the geniuses who rise to power among the commoners always want to cash in on power as quickly as possible, which leads to shocking corruption. Once the country is in crisis and control decreases, officials will always prioritize their own interests, so they will quickly push the country into an irreparable abyss, as was the case in the late Ming Dynasty.
Because of the strong bureaucratic tradition you cannot reject and which will always exist, China’s attempts at Western-style democracy will always fail. The reason is also simple, because of checks and balances. As other respondents have said, the British Empire also borrowed from the Chinese bureaucracy to form a modern civil service, and it didn’t have problems. This is because their civil service system emerged after the aristocratic tradition, and elected officials were usually aristocrats because the established resources of the aristocracy gave them a higher probability of being elected, and even if they were not competent and experienced enough, they could use their original large resource system against powerful professional bureaucrats. The same is true in the United States, except that big capitalists have replaced the aristocracy. However, China’s aristocratic tradition has long been destroyed, and there has never been a mercantile tradition, so capitalists cannot get involved in politics. Elected officials with no roots and only speeches will only become puppets for powerful bureaucrats. When the power of the bureaucrats cannot be checked, the country will quickly be consumed by corruption and division.
This situation was clearly reflected in history after the fall of the Qing Dynasty, when Sun Yat-sen, the father of the nation, never effectively took control of the country and his governing philosophy was considered naive and impractical. Yuan Shikai, a representative of the powerful bureaucratic class, quickly took control of the country and proclaimed himself emperor. After Yuan’s death, the bureaucracy was completely out of control and warlords were formed, who in order to consolidate their power could only sell out the interests of the country in exchange for support from foreign powers… Until the most powerful warlord, Chiang Kai-shek, completed his nominal unification, at which point he met the Communists.
The Communists were in some ways a natural fit with the bureaucratic tradition.
- They are both anti-aristocratic but not anti-elite, and they both believe that the elite represent powerful productive forces, while the aristocracy are the assholes of society
- Both encourage a strong government that runs the state with precision and science through smart policies and strong enforcement
- The Chinese bureaucratic class, or intellectual class, has long been influenced by Confucianism and believes that “social commonwealth”, or egalitarianism, is the ultimate political ideal, which happens to be compatible with communism
- Since China had no aristocracy and the capitalists had no power, there was no resistance to communism in China and it was easily accepted by the masses.
After that, the Communist Party naturally and unstoppably became the ruling party in China.
Of course, problems also in the early communist confrontation with bureaucratic traditions. Since the means of production, such as land, could not be bought and sold, the bureaucrats finally realized that their power cannot be turned into wealth and that the governor and the peasant did not get much difference, and they became dissatisfied.
Mao was keenly aware of this, who was a staunch communist with romantic and idealistic beliefs, could not tolerate the theft of revolutionary gains, so he launched the Cultural Revolution in an attempt to confront the bureaucratic tradition.
Contrary to the perception of most Westerners, Mao was not the same as Stalin, who had the ability to act because he had the power to do so. By the time Mao launched the Cultural Revolution, he had been out of control of the country for some time and was basically retired, with Liu Shaoqi as the country’s leader at the time. However, Mao used his great popularity among the people to overthrow the government in power with a single “big-character poster”, calling Liu Shaoqi and others “those in power who have taken the capitalist road” and reawakening the public’s vigilance of the bureaucratic class. As the officials in power feared Mao’s great prestige, the government dared not confront them as long as people held Mao’s quotations, so Mao’s quotations and the “loyalty dance” became the symbols of the era. Bureaucrats, elites, and intellectuals were beaten down and criticized, someone even went to college because he scored 0 on his exams, and Confucian doctrine was seen as evil and incomprehensible. It was the ultimate revolution against the bureaucratic tradition.
As it turned out, when the bureaucracy collapsed, the country did not get better but fell into complete chaos, with schools closed, factories shut down, and the whole country in trouble, and the Cultural Revolution ultimately failed. Before his death, Mao became a “Don Quixote” type of brave man and took a huge blame, of course, he was responsible for it, but it should be admitted that it was not as he wished.
When the pragmatic Deng Xiaoping reorganized the country in ruins, he should have realized that if he couldn’t beat it, he should join it. In fact, Deng’s series of policies was to restore the tradition of civil bureaucratic since ancient times. He restored university entrance exams, civil service exams, land deals, and the top-down monitoring and assessment system… In this way the country started to function smoothly and China entered an era of rapid development, but of course, corruption followed.
Until now, Xi Jinping has been able to control corruption through a series of powerful measures, and the bureaucracy and the state have once again reached a certain balance. If the bureaucracy is an unstoppable sword, then there must be a strong wielder of the sword to use it. After countless trials and errors, the Communist Party replaced the imperial power as the sword-bearer, and as most Chinese people perceive, this was the choice of history. Even if the Communist Party is overthrown, it will not change for the better, but will only bring chaos, until the next powerful sword-bearer appears.
Bureaucratic tradition and power politics, like the thorn apple, are both beautiful and dangerous, and as Chinese, we have no choice. Maybe the success of the CPC is just part of the cycle of governance and chaos that has been going on in China for thousands of years, maybe not. We don’t know, but most of us think it is not universal and that each nation should find its own path according to its own history.
Looking back at this answer after some time, I realized that this article seems to be more inclined to describe the negative aspects of the civil bureaucratic tradition. Obviously, I wrote this answer thinking from a Chinese perspective, and I tacitly assumed that people understood the advantages of the civil bureaucratic tradition, which may have been a small misunderstanding, and I am in fact neutral about the phenomenon. So I decided to make a small update, which I had mentioned in other comments, and I’ll post those here as well:
Earlier, I argued why the only form of politics that can eventually be stabilized in China is “bureaucratic dictatorship”.This means that you have to accept the tactics that any authoritarian regime would use, such as speech control, censorship, party bans… This is because authoritarian regimes do not have good enough mechanisms to release pressure, and holding all the power means taking all the pressure(With great power comes great responsibility), and the media is usually a multiplier of negative emotions, and when you receive bad news every day through all the information channels, especially in a country as big as China, the legitimacy of the regime will have no footing. When English becomes the de facto world language, China also de facto loses the ability and possibility to challenge the world’s mainstream political consensus, which makes a firewall at the national level inevitable.
Yet China’s political ecology is not anti-democratic, even if it is not Western-style democracy, it still has the core of democracy.
First of all, you need to acknowledge that any civilian, regardless of background, can prove his or her ability to become the ruler of the country in China through exams and hard work, and that ensuring this upward mobility is at the heart of Chinese culture. In the Chinese bureaucracy, this ability stratification effect is visible to the naked eye; almost every official at the appropriate level has the appropriate level of ability, and except for young people starting out, mature civil servants have a clear sense of the gap between their abilities and those of their superiors.
Second, officials are under constant pressure from both their superiors and the public, and if their performance is poor or causes more discontent, not only does he lose the possibility of promotion himself, but his superiors’ political careers are also affected. This is something that is endless in the Chinese political ecology (e.g. COVID-19, where hundreds of officials were dealt with for not performing up to expectations despite a natural disaster), so this accountability mechanism ensures that most of the time the interests of the officials and the people are aligned.
Third, because of the hierarchical promotion mechanism rather than elections, there is a greater preference for outcome justice rather than procedural justice to justify the bureaucracy in China. This forces officials to confront problems with more pragmatic strategies rather than empty promises.
In fact, our current system is more akin to a mega-corporation in which the shareholders are all the people, the National People’s Congress is the shareholders’ meeting, the Central Political Bureau is like the board of directors, and the general secretary is like the chairman. As a leader, Xi Jinping is not a “dictator” as Westerners think of him, but more like a coordinator of interests and political forces. You can easily understand how a company works, so you can understand how the CPC works. Obviously, there is not that much freedom in this system, you can’t get a position by simply promising it, you have to prove your suitability for a position through your working experience. If you somehow attack the leadership in the company, usually your career will also be affected…and the corporate system, which happens to be the most competitive form of the system that evolves through full business competition after survival of the fittest.
Of course, some people prefer the Western style of one-person-one-vote democracy and free social atmosphere, which is fully understandable and not to be criticized, and they can choose their preferred lifestyle through immigration. Those who are more pragmatic will choose to stay and build this huge country and make it better.
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The Book
Oh boy, do I have a story for you.
This “family possession” wasn’t something passed down through generations of my family. It was something I bought for around $12 at a thrift store back in 2012. Something I hoped to keep forever, and maybe share with my own children in the distant future.
It was a book, an old book.
Its cover was a gray-blue and almost marbled, like water on an overcast day.
Its pages were stiff with age, and the edges rough cut. They crackled ever so slightly every now and then as I turned them.
It had etchings covered in something like tissue paper, illustrations of moments and animals mentioned within its pages.
It smelled old, like quiet private libraries, caught in a fragment of time highlighted by dust motes floating in beams of late-afternoon sunlight and warm, velvet-lined armchairs.
From the moment I first touched fingers to cover, I was in love with this book. The real kicker was opening to the first couple pages and finding it had been published in the 1800s. I was holding a book that was around 150 years old. I was holding a physical manifestation of history.
It was a first edition Walden by Henry David Thoreau. I didn’t know then how much it could be worth; I trusted that the thrift shop knew how to properly research each potentially valuable item that came through their doors.
I debated for probably two seconds over whether or not I should buy it. At $12? Hell yes, I bought it!
Fast forward to 2014.
My fiancé and I were broke, living on our own in an apartment we couldn’t afford. He was working at a car dealership as a “trainee”, which — at least at this particular dealership — was code for “work twice as hard only to have to give your seniors most of your commission and hope for the best.”
He ran so low on gas that day, that he called me from the dealership 30 minutes away, trying to hide his own stress, to tell me that he didn’t think he could make the drive home.
Our account was down to the single digits.
We had no cash.
Can you tell where this is going?
I ransacked our apartment for anything of remotely any value. I texted him photos of various items, asking, “is this okay to sell?”
I had one of those digital TV antennae that don’t work as advertised, a beautiful wooden handled pocket knife, and a couple of other things.
I saw Walden. I didn’t want to sell it. I hadn’t even finished it yet — life just kept getting in the way and I had a hard time digesting the outdated language of the book. I will always regret that. I can always get a newer print of the book, but it just won’t be the same, so I hesitate still.
I shoved down my attachment to the book and sped down the street to the pawn shop.
I saved the book for last. The guy at the counter had been very uninterested up until that point — “what do you want for this? Ehh, that’s a little much.”
I brought the book up. “I’m sure it’s not worth much, but I love this and it’s all I have left.”
He takes one look at it and his eyes go from tired and uncaring to nearly predatory. I didn’t register it until after the book was tucked safely behind his counter.
“How much do you want for this?” he asked.
“I don’t know. I need $20.” I thought I was shooting high.
“Done,” he said, way too quickly.
And that, I’m afraid, was the last I saw of that lovely, ancient, beautiful book.
Fast forward to 2016.
I’m sitting in the living room at my parents’ house, recounting the tale of the oldest book I ever owned to my family.
I stop to wonder just how much that book was worth.
I did a google search, and I swear I nearly dropped in a dead faint.
This first edition book was selling online in a number of places for anywhere between $400 and $10,000.
Ten. Thousand. Dollars.
Doing a quick search now (because for the life of me I can’t remember the exact published year of my copy), I found the one that looked the most like what I had.
There was another on the first page just now selling for over $6,000.
I’m not going to lie… I cried. I laughed and then I cried really freaking hard.
I wished that I had had the foresight to just take the book to an appraiser or something.
Actually, I wish I’d just kept it, honestly.
But the actual worth of that book would have helped us out a hell of a lot more than the $20 that went right into my husband’s gas tank.
And that was the story of my biggest regret to date. I will consider myself blessed if it remains so.
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Some notes
- If you believe someone is lying to you, don’t say anything. If they continue to elaborate on what they are saying then they are lying.
- The worst feeling in the world is to know you were used and lied to by someone you trusted.
- If someone gives you advice, respond with “you’re right”. It sounds more diplomatic than “I know.”
- Psychologists say the key to confidence is walking into a room and assuming everyone likes you.
- When people say, “you’ve changed, there’s a 95% chance that you just stopped acting the way they wanted you to.
- A sleeping human brain can still understand the words being spoken around it.
- Having at least one “Lazy day” per week can help reduce stress, high blood pressure, stroke
- People who are more perfectionist are more likely to be depressed, because they stress themselves out so much.
- We tend to believe others pay attention to our behavior and appearance much more than they actually do. This is called the spotlight effect.
- We are more attracted to people wearing red because red triggers a basic, primal response in humans as a signal of sexuality, fertility, health, and status.
- The human mind spends most of it’s time replaying memories over and over with the desire to relive them.
- It’s impossible to remain angry at someone you truly love.
- Anger lasting for more than 3 days indicates that you’re not in love.
- the person arguing loses his temper and starts shouting, natural human tendency is to shout back. DON’T! Stay calm and reply in silence. This will piss them off even more. Try it! It works.
- Usually the people who are “too nice” get hurt the most.
- THE QUIETEST PEOPLE TEND TO HAVE THE LOUDEST MINDS
- Remember: The one that gossips with you. Will also gossip about you!
- If someone makes eye contact with you for 60% of a conversation they’re bored, 80% and they’re attracted to you and 100% of the time then they are threatening you.
- Your gut feelings are usually accurate and correct. If you truly feel there is something,chances are there is.
- Listening to sad songs creates positive notions, because it helps the person feel understood
- Feelings don’t die easily because we keep feeding them with memories. That’s exactly why it’s so hard to move on.
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Mr. Roarke vs Satan
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A word on eye contact. If someone is unarmed and is menacing you by virtue of greater size or they merely think you are a weak target, return the 100 percent eye contact. Basically, a staring contest. The reverse of what is mentioned above is equally effective against bullies who are actually underneath it all cowards who won’t conclude what they started. This is very effective with ‘off the wall’ folks as who post here because we got that alt spirituality vibe going on. We are more accustomed to dealing with the crazy people than the crazy people are dealing with us.
It’s sickening that the US with all its alleged resources has turned into an utter shithole save for our rural areas. Rural America though is labeled as racist, haters, because of the refusal to join in with making everything into shit. I don’t even know who we are anymore, we have no longer have a national identity as Americans and having a national identity makes you a Nazi. Hardly. Nazi’s at least ran a clean machine. Our cities are rife with crime, filth, garbage and decay but the people can only focus on the climate, not the zillions of pounds filth dumped into the ocean which is apparently ‘okay’. No one in the cities care. It’s like they revel in it. It’s like its done for spite to thumb their nose and more decent and concerned people. People cry about poverty but do nothing about it. In spite of what news media says hunger is NOT a prevalent problem in America. It’s not. Not like in famine raddled third world nations which is what they make it sound like. From my position in rural America there are 8 food pantries within a 20 min radius. There’s food stamps aplenty. When I was laid off in 2020 and had to apply for unemployment benefits for a few weeks, my enhanced employment was like 1000.00 dollars a week. 200 dollars MORE than I brought home working forty hours a week. Just printing out money from thin air and tossing it hither and yon to people, to the Ukraine to illegal immigrants, corporations etc. And they still asked if I needed food stamps. They create the issue of hunger to prop up the sacred victims of America who don’t just want equality because they are incapable of it anyway but want to be ‘special’ people. People demanding inclusion don’t want equal rights, they want people to admire them for their mental illness and if you don’t then you are a hater.
Neither is employment (now) a problem so poverty shouldn’t be an issue. It’s not because of race or prejudice people can’t work, it’s because they are told they can’t work because of race and prejudice and what sacred cows they are. Now we have diversity which is celebration of mental illnesses that people would have been committed for 40 years ago. So our workplaces aren’t safe. Going to the grocery store isn’t safe. People are erupting in emotional and physical violence everywhere and never for reasons of American principles its all for ego centric reasons. “I don’t like that person or that group.”
Our politicians and officials with the eager participation of their brainwashed masses are openly and publicly calling for violence against people who don’t agree with their politics. They are offensive therefore criminals inviting vigilante justice. But the people keeping a firearm or two around the house to defend themselves from this idiocy are the real problem. And to their way of thinking, they are. Because they pose an ‘authoritarian’ threat to their deranged narrative, people capable of nipping the sickness in the bud with a lead vaccine.
Harassment and violence are encouraged in everyday. otherwise low stress jobs, due to lack of intervention, but some mildly flirty “old school” courtly old man will get fired for “sexual harassment” for complimenting a woman on her hair style. It’s like we are just destroying any element of human camaraderie and kindess to foment hatred within ourselves so we can spew it out and punish people for wrongs we are not even sure they committed. They are like trolls from the internet, who have materialized in real life. I cannot fathom it. I have lived, worked and associated with annoying, obnoxious and even offensive people my whole life and never thought I needed to hate them, or get on the vigilante high horse and go after them because they had an obnoxious personality. People cannot cope with other people’s differences anymore and they are socially engineered not to.
We recently had a thing called the great resignation where people literally walked away from their jobs. All sorts of reasons are given but I’m thinking a lot of people are thinking the American Dream is just not worth their health, physical safety or mental soundness. Today’s America is likely not worth it either.
Qurow, don’t let these vampires drain you of your energy. Yes, things are changing. And not much for the good here in western societies. But I’ve found that if I keep my mind clear, focused on what’s important to me and the ones I love, I can avoid or nullify anyone who tries to feed off my energy. Avoid anger, fear, and judgmental thinking. Purity of thought (control) is important.
Personally, I feel as if I’m being guided. Pay attention to instances where you’re able to assist or help someone. Perhaps they are less fortunate but they are trying hard in life. It could be a person, an animal, or even a bug. It could even be community oriented. But once you see or feel “it”, you’ll know what positive action to perform.
These good deeds generate a type of quanta that cannot be taken from you and build the character of the mind like weightlifting to a bodybuilder.
You’re here for a reason. You have purpose, intellect and understanding. Make it count!
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