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Voice matters—but so does creativity

Because you are a brainless sheep who lives only to find new targets to hate.

Incapable of independent thought, or understanding the concept that someone disagreeing with you may not support the person you hate, you are just a simpleton who has decided to remove the burden of intelligent thought from your life and chosen someone else to think for you.

You are a mouthpiece for other people’s ideas, this is proven by the fact that you can’t even articulate why you hate Tesla, and are reaching out so others can instruct you on how to live your life, you are literally asking other people to speak for you because you don’t even know why you dislike Tesla.

Why doesn’t China accept refugees like civilised countries do?

You know in China, if you invite your friends for a drink, and you open another bottle of liquor for a toast, it is 100% your job to drink it up.

Bottom up, cheers, not a single drop left.

Otherwise your friends will think you are lame braggart. You may ask your friends at the table to help you drink some, but it will be nonsense for any of you to blame someone else who is not even at the table, for not helping you.

If you are the host and you can’t drink, don’t open that bottle.

If you get invited by a lame host, and you don’t like to be forced to drink, then don’t go.

Actually, without those so called civilized countries and their direct, indirect support into those dirty bloody wars, there wouldn’t have been this many refugees in the first place.

Why should China wipe your ass, or clean the mess after your party?

They are the one who keeps telling you don’t do it, shouldn’t do it, stop doing it…

Your people vote for your politicians and military to give those people freedom, now they have it, in your own country.

That is a Mission Accomplished.

What’s better, you don’t have to spend trillions to deliver freedom over, they come for it. Cheaper, faster, safer, isn’t it better?

Afterall, it’s you who opened that bottle, not China. Say no more, say no more, buddy, cheers, bottom up, not a single drop left.

Cause that’s the only way for you to stay civilized, barely.

Cranberry Barbecue Beans

Sweet savory, and bursting with cranberries, these barbecue beans are begging to be served alongside your holiday ham.

Cranberry Barbecue Beans

Yield:10 to 12 servings

Ingredients

  • 1 (1 pound) package Camellia Brand Navy Beans
  • 8 ounces (6 slices) thick cut bacon, chopped
  • 1 1/2 cups chopped sweet onion
  • 1 cup fresh or frozen cranberries, thawed
  • 1 cup ketchup
  • 1 cup barbecue sauce
  • 1/2 cup cane syrup
  • 1/2 cup yellow mustard
  • 2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme
  • 2 cups chicken broth

Instructions

  1. In a large bowl, add beans and water to cover by 3 inches. Cover and let soak overnight.
  2. Drain beans and rinse.
  3. In a large Dutch oven, add beans and water to cover by 2 inches. Bring to a boil over high heat. Cook until beans are tender, about 1 hour.
  4. Drain, discarding liquid.
  5. In same Dutch oven, cook bacon over medium-high heat, stirring occasionally, until fat is beginning to render, about 5 minutes.
  6. Add onion; cook, stirring frequently, until onion is tender and starting to brown at edges, 5 to 7 minutes.
  7. Add beans and cranberries; cook, stirring constantly, for 2 minutes.
  8. Add ketchup, barbecue sauce, cane syrup, mustard, and thyme. Cook for 2 minutes.
  9. Add chicken broth; bring to a boil. Reduce heat to medium-low. Cook, uncovered, until sauce is thick, 45 to 60 minutes.

Notes

Bean math: 1 (15 ounce) can beans = 1 1/2 cups cooked beans, drained.

If you have an avoidant personality or love someone who does, then read on; this is written from a place of straightforward experience and empathy. Often someone with an avoidant personality doesn’t want to do the actual “break up” themselves. But if you won’t and they have to, it will be polite and civil. “It’s not you, it’s me…I wish you well…you have a bright future ahead of you…blah.” (I’ve heard that speech a few times in my life so I have it memorized.)

If you find yourself pushed to the brink of your emotional endurance by their avoidance, struggle to communicate, hesitation over commitment, and similar concerns that leave you feeling rejected (Again, can you tell I’ve walked this road? Dating and marriage has lent me its experience.) then perhaps you have been the one to end things and you wonder how it will affect them. Well, at first they will feel relief. But that won’t last. Then come the feelings of intense loneliness, self-doubt, feeling that their needs are a burden and that they’ll always drive everyone away, that no one will stay. They may or may not try to get you back once they realize there’s been a mistake. They may throw themselves into work or hobbies to keep themselves busy. Some turn to alcohol or other things. Anything to numb the emotions.

And here’s the thing; the internet will make them out to be bad people. “Experts” will call them cold, narcissistic, stoic, hard hearted, even cruel. And many in the comments will fuel the fire yelling and railing about how they were hurt by an avoidant ex or currently being hurt by an avoidant partner and that people with those personality types need to grow up, that we shouldn’t coddle them or step on eggshells etc. And that makes me so angry. People with avoidant attachment styles aren’t bad people. They are also not cold or narcissistic. (Classic narcissism is very rare and people throw the word around too much.) Many of them are very generous, giving, charitable, and ethical. They just so happen to carry baggage (like everyone else) and they’ve been hurt in life in such a way that their internal protective instinct was to build walls around their heart. They are good people worthy of love and respect, and from me they will be given empathy and understanding. Time has taught me lessons that I wish I had known twenty years ago.

I feel that rather than understanding how they respond to a breakup, it would be more helpful for you to understand how to love them in a non-threatening way so that instead of being yet another person who breaks up with them, you could finally be their person; their person who stays. You’ll need empathy, tenacity, and unconditional love though. If you don’t have those then do them a favor and walk away. Otherwise, read on. Here is an excerpt from one of my previous answers I wrote:

Avoidant people just want someone in their life who will be fair with them. Someone they can trust. Someone who will be worth the risk. Risk is terrifying to avoidant people. They have a deeply rooted fear of not being worthy of love; or at the least, of no one staying long enough to truly love them. They’re deeply lonely when you get down to it. Because they’ve never experienced people in their personal lives who did treat them fairly, or who didn’t place heavy or hidden expectations on them. Every time they thought they could let go and relax, someone dropped the bombshell on them; and you are a potential threat of that happening again. They’re afraid to bond with you because they haven’t had much of that in their life before. They’re hesitant to have a deep connection with you because it may make them feel smothered and pressured—even if they crave connection in their heart of hearts.

They have a defense mechanism that is many layers deep and most people are not patient enough to penetrate them. Avoidant people will do exactly what the name says; avoid you. They start to feel an intense emotional connection to you and they fear what it could mean if they allow themselves to depend on you. What if they lean on you emotionally or come to rely on you in some way and you leave? What if you use it against them in an argument? What if you depend on them and they let you down, then how will they be able to handle your disappointment? The potential risk is too much for them to bear, they tell themselves, so they put distance between you and them. They pull away. And if they ever get past that to potentially being engaged to you, they fear the risk in marriage. What if you take everything they have one day? If they try to prevent that with a prenup what if you refuse to sign? What if living with you takes away from them the few moments of peace they have in living alone? What if you hit them with hidden expectations? What if you try to change who they are? What if they can’t trust you? What if…? They fear the risks involved. They run risk analysis in their minds constantly over things that may or may not ever happen, but that cause anxiety nonetheless.

You want your love for them to bring them comfort, peace, and security, but instead it makes them feel pressured and afraid of letting you down—and even if you don’t feel that way, they do. Their fears seemingly come true personified by you. In the past they felt tolerated, or ignored, and you just want to shower them in love and affection; and to them this is overwhelming, foreign, and seems too good to be true. Unconditional love is not something they’ve had a lot of, at least not from romantic partners.

And in many cases, when they begin pushing their loved one away, their fears become a self-fulfilling prophecy when their partner feels rejected, unwanted, or hurt. Their partner breaks up with them, and they feel relieved at first because the pressure is gone. But then the intense loneliness returns, and the feelings of, “See? They left you too. You’ll never find love. You’ll always be alone,” come to mind. The cycle repeats over and over with each new love interest.

But if you truly love this person and want to be there long term in their life then you have to have tenacity. Love is a choice. It’s not just the rush of excitement, the spark of chemistry, or the thrill of lust. Love goes deeper; it’s a commitment that says, “no matter what happens, I will always be here for you. I choose you and I will not walk away. I will not back down or give up on you, because you deserve love. You deserve respect. You deserve to have someone in your corner no matter what. I am here and you are safe with me.”

That doesn’t mean smother them, but if you can’t give them the patience and determination it will take to gently peel back the layers and walls around their heart in order to get to their true selves, then please don’t be another person in their life that lets them down, makes promises, and then walks away in a fit of frustration. If you love them and are determined to stand by them then be someone who keeps your word. They deserve that.

Everyone deserves love. Unconditional love.

Edit: For the person who said in the comments people with avoidant personalities should be satisfied “just having friendships” in life, take a hike. Everyone deserves to be loved and cared for. No one should ever be left wondering why no one ever stays or if they are a burden or if their needs are just too much. No. Just because you can’t be their person doesn’t mean someone else can’t. This is what I mean. The internet is full of ridiculous notions and comments and I won’t tolerate it on my answer. I will delete those comments.

This is a WONDERFUL video.

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Yes, farmers will suffer and potash is far from the only problem. 60% of the USs crude oil comes from Canada and is going to get more expensive.

Farmers use a huge amount of diesel fuel for planting and harvesting. Those tractors don’t run on nothing.

Speaking of tractors, parts for repairs are also going to go up. At the same time American agriculture products are facing tariffs in Canada and China means farmers sell less. Since Canadians are, rightfully, boycotting American products they sell even less.

Farmers already work on extremely thin margins. This could entirely break the American agricultural industry

~Awakening~

Written in response to: Center your story around a character who’s struggling to let go.

Jim Parker

~ Awakening ~

Charlie Sue woke feeling refreshed and ready for the day. She sat up in the queen sized bed stretching and looking for Dermott. He was usually a late sleeper. Oh there he was, sitting in the recliner by the door, just watching her. “What are you doing up so early Derms? Come here and give me a morning kiss.” He came over and gave her a peck on the lips, then sat on the bed, still silent. He was acting different, like he was nervous. “Somethings wrong. What is it?”

           “Nothing Honey. I was just waiting for you to wake up.”

           She went all business. “Bullshit. You never get up before me. And even if you did, you would be on the computer by now. Tell me. And don’t lie to me.”

           Intimidated, he hung in there. “No. Everything is fine. We’re going to have lunch with Miss Debbie and Shewuma today.”

           Time for a change in tactics. Charlie Sue pulled up her nightgown and straddled Dermott’s lap. She pushed her fingers slowly across his scalp through his red curls and went close to his ear, her lips nibbling as she cooed, “I know something is going on Poodle. We need to get past this because I want you inside of me.”

           That did it, Dermott’s will collapsed in on itself and he spilled the beans. She listened intently as he told her, in detail, about the events of the night before where Debbie found her outside in a zombie state transmitting information about the family to God knows who.

           Charlie Sue didn’t believe it. In the short time she had lived with Dermott she felt something about herself was different. Not broken, but off kilter, out of whack. But with her eidetic memory how was that possible? Anyone else but not her. “And we’re allegedly going to have lunch with Debbie so she can what, interrogate me or hypnotize me or something?” Charlie Sue climbed off of him and hurried to the bathroom, her whole demeanor shifting to focused purpose. Looking in the mirror at her failing sleep braid, she decided to forget the hair and make-up and grabbed the sweat suit she used for jogging. Mulling the consequences of everything Dermott had confessed, she peeked back through the door and saw him still sitting there sad faced and using a pillow to cover his erection. It would have been cute under normal conditions. “Get dressed Derms. I’m not waiting, we are going over there right now.”

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           Dermott and Charlie Sue left their guest cottage and walked deliberately towards the main house. All 85 pounds of Molly was outside and ran to them wagging her tail with a happy pets eagerness. Dermott stopped, intending to frolic for a moment but Charlie Sue doggedly kept going, so he abandoned Molly’s affections and caught up to her. She was focused to the point of manic. Sitting in an Adirondack chair on his front porch wrapped in a blue blanket, Robert Hazer sucked smoke from his Meerschaum pipe and waved a morning greeting. Some 30 yards away in the target practice area, Wolf was throwing cans of sparkling water backwards over his head, then spinning, drawing an arrow and pinning it, hissing it’s carbonation, to the nearest of 6 targets in a semi-circle. Dermott wanted to watch some of this mind-boggling display of skill but Charlie Sue kept hard charging on her mission and he stayed with her.

Shewuma gave them a jolt, suddenly appearing between them, seemingly out of nowhere and wrapping an arm around each waist. “Good morning kids. Where are you two heading so hell bent?”

Charlie Sue stopped and gave Wu a hard look. “I’m going to see Debbie.”

Wu eyed Dermott warily. “You told her. Debbie owes me a foot rub. We made a bet you wouldn’t…” Charlie Sue barreled forward. Shewuma grasped the back of the hoodie and spun her around. “I see from your aura that you are in riot mode. Calm down.”

Trying to jerk free Charlie Sue answered, “I don’t have time for this chit chat, Shewuma.”

Shewuma took her disheveled braid and pulled her face to face, wincing. Molly appeared next to Wu growling under her breath. Wu’s eyes went blank and cold. Charlie Sue remembered that same look in the eyes of a feeding Great White on Shark Week. Dark, menacing and ruthless. Her resolve didn’t falter, but fear mixed with common sense surged to the forefront. Like a fading dream she recalled experiencing this depth of dread once before but then the near memory was gone. How was that possible?

Shewuma could see in Charlie Sue’s darkening aura how badly she frightened her and tried to soften the situation, “Now you just settle it down young lady. You go in there and be respectful. This is not personal so you act accordingly. We clear?” Wu released the lock on her braid and waved Molly off.

“Yes Ma’am. I didn’t mean to…”

“Forget it. Let’s go work this out.”

Dermott began to speak and the women said in unison, “Shut up Dermott.” Then Wu heard Debbie say in her mind, “Bring them to the vault,” and she veered all three to the side door.

As the massive 5’x7’ door layered in thick sections of steel and concrete slowly opened into the vault, Charlie Sue expected to feel claustrophobic. Dermott had told her about the vault but actually seeing it was a revelation and looking around took her breath. Debbie came to Charlie Sue and enveloped her physically and mentally in a benevolent hug until she relaxed and then embraced it with a feeling of relief. Debbie spoke softly. “Everything will be fine. Something unnatural is happening with you. We’re going to figure out what it is, you need to let it go.” The high ceilinged vault was at least 40’x 25’. As the slow heavy door glided closed with a dull thud, Debbie gave her a quick tour. To her immediate left a pantry stocked with emergency survival essentials, from sleeping bags to food and everything in between. Next to it a full bath, then a kitchenette including a refrigerator. A little further down an enormous sectional couch. In the center of the room a boat shaped conference table that sat ten. Charlie Sue realized that practically everything in the room was white, including the impressive marble fireplace fully outfitted with logs and kindling. On either side of the fireplace, hung enough firepower and ammo for a small army. AR 15s, 9mm sidearms and 12 gauge pump action shotguns interspersed with edged weapons of all shapes and sizes. But what was most impressive was the far wall. Having minored in art history in college, Charlie Sue recognized valuable artifacts when she saw them. There were many but some stood out. Rock fragments covered with Egyptian hieroglyphs. A Pre-Incan figurine of a high priest made of gold, a bronze Viking cross from 12th century A.D. And incredibly an ancient Bagdad battery. But all of these artifacts paled in comparison to the treasures they flanked. A pyramid of recessed niches in the wall, each containing skulls carved from blue crystal. The legends were true.

Debbie said to Charlie Sue, “Yes. We call them the Sancti. They are super computers. I am their keeper until my people return to Earth.” Flabbergasted, Charlie Sue realized that Debbie could read her thoughts. Was it possible that all of Dermott’s crazy stories were true?

With no inkling of where this was going, Debbie, Wu and David E. wanted to take the highest road and give Charlie Sue complete benefit of the doubt but there was too much at stake. Holding her by the shoulders, Debbie said “Don’t worry Honey. Dermott loves you, so we all love you. We are your family now. Sit down here at the table and watch this. Then I am going to give you a complete physical.” A hologram of all of Debbie’s memories of Charlie Sue’s actions the night before began to run like a film.

As Debbie began the examination she telepathically asked Shewuma about the Eagle. Wu answered her mind to mind. “He’s on his way. I briefed him on everything we discussed. He’s a Shaman for the tribe, so he’s qualified and well versed in ancestral ritual. If it comes to the worst case scenario I’ll take care of it.”

Just then the Eagle and Jimmy entered the vault carrying a satchel, trash bags, and a silver serving tray with a teapot of hot water, cups and a stack of towels.

Debbie finished her examination and said telepathically to David E. “There is involuntary restriction in her core but no GI issues. That’s all I found.”

“Could be muscle memory holding on to unremembered sexual abuse. You better take Dermott out of the room, this could get dicey.” He thought back to her.

“She’s as healthy as a horse,” declared Debbie to the room. “David E. You’re up. And Jim, would you take Dermott and get him some breakfast? This might take a while. It will be boring.”

Debbie, Shewuma and Jimmy knew that David E. spent many years in secret cold war programs. MK Ultra, LSD trials and Remote Viewing being the only examples he had ever mentioned. He rarely spoke of any of it and if he did, the deep remorse embedded into him from that time in his life leaked through cracks in his normally unimpeachable character like immoral sludge from a rusted and long forgotten barrel of heinous deeds. So they were surprised at how dramatically his demeanor and behavior hardened as his questioning of Charlie Sue quickly became interrogation and then intimidation.

He began by asking her simple questions about her moods, sleep patterns and appetite. He logically moved on to previous relationships. Especially former lovers and her parents. Then her medical history and family medical history. Any mental illness, perhaps some trauma to her or trauma she witnessed? Is she or was she ever on any medications. His tone became steadily more aggressive and the questions more intrusive. On he went for many minutes until he was openly badgering her. Then, waving a folder of papers in front of her, he said, “This is your file from human resources at Lockheed. We know what you did. We know about the white wash at the plant. We know about your perverted sexual history.”

“No. That’s not true, why are you saying this?” Charlie Sue started to get up and Wu snatched her back to the seat and held her firm.

“BULLSHIT!” Hollered David E. and threw the pages in her face. “We’ll come back to this. Because I want your response to this question and don’t pretend like you don’t know or there will be consequences. What is your relationship with time?”

“I…don’t know what you mean.”

David E. nodded to Debbie and she pulled a plastic bag over Charlie Sue’s head. Charlie Sue kicked and squirmed to no avail as she hopelessly tried to gulp some precious air. With Eagle’s psychic help, Wu had been learning to disengage her empathic reception of someone’s emotions when touching them, but Charlie Sue’s feelings of terror and betrayal were leaking through and taking a toll on her. She knew she couldn’t keep it up much longer. Debbie removed the bag to gasps for breath and wracking sobs. “Why?” Charlie Sue could barely articulate.

David E. put his finger in her face. “Last Chance girl. Last go. What is your relationship with time?”

Tears streamed from her eyes and she cried out, almost hysterically, “I DON’T EVEN WEAR A WATCH!”

He sighed heavily, with finality. “That’s it Deb. No tics, no traumas, no phobias, no psychosomatic or buried mental illness. No sign of mental conditioning, mind control or torture.”

Shewuma stepped away, fighting back tears. Then quickly regained her composure. Debbie noticed her pain and asked her silently, “You all right Baby?”

Wu simply nodded.

David E. looked at Charlie Sue with true regret. “Sorry Honey.”

“Sorry! SORRY? You people are fucking crazy. I’m calling the cops! I’ll sue your asses! Does Dermott know about any of this?”

As she rose from the chair, Debbie pressed a nerve in Charlie Sue’s neck and she sat back, suddenly calm.

“Want to try the Amobarbital?” David E. asked. Debbie looked at Shewuma with consternation. “What do you think WuWu?”

“No. Dibs, when she thought she was suffocating, there was a muddy dull swirl in her aura over her head. I think that’s where we need to go.”

“I saw it too, Chieftess,” Said Eagle. “A disconnected level of consciousness.”

Debbie was fascinated. “So what do we do?”

“I think we can access it, but I will need your help Comista.” He held out his hand and Debbie and Wu both took hold. After several seconds Eagle said, “Good?”

Both women were in.

Jimmy came back, oblivious to the hell that had been imposed on Charlie Sue. “Jims,” Asked Debbie. “How is Dermott holding up?”

“He’s fine,” Jimmy stated. “He’s up there playing video games. Making any head way?” He noticed that Wu seemed distant and took her hand. “You okay Woser?”

Producing a forced smile, she kissed his knuckle, then looked at Eagle and said, “Let’s do this.”

Eagle looked around at his companions and said, “ For the time being, I ask that all of you move counter clockwise if you have to walk in a circle.”

Shewuma went to her knees and softly recited a Hopi prayer over and over while Eagle built a roaring fire and slid Charlie Sue in her chair about 3 feet in front, facing it. Addressing the sacred fire by name, calling it Fuego, he then asked the fire for five results from this ceremony: “Make me less judgmental of those I encounter. Help me forgive others when forgiveness is not my choice. Keep my wife Luce, safe and happy. Help my new daughter learn wisdom and respect for Mother Earth and her ancestors. And please Fuego, help us unravel the mystery of Charlie Sue and her secret life.”

The next minutes of preparation were uneventful. The Eagle made tea. Crushing several buttons of what Debbie realized was Peyote. He separated them into three China cups on a silver tray and poured the hot water over them. While they steeped, He put a large black trash bag and the bath towels next to Charlie Sue. After setting the serving tray on the floor in front of the fire, he handed Charlie Sue and Shewuma each a cup and took the third one for himself. “Can you drink Charlie Sue?”

She nodded yes, still in a compliant state from Debbie’s earlier application of acupressure.

Within moments of drinking the gritty liquid, Jimmy and David E. were startled and reacted as all three began to vomit. Debbie stopped them, explaining it was normal to throw up after drinking Peyote.  Expecting it, Eagle tried to contain the mess in the trash bag as best he could. Then continued cleaning up with the towels. He paused and said, “You guys should get comfortable. We are going to be here for a while.” Wu and Charlie Sue appeared to doze off.

Jimmy sat on the couch and began fiddling on his phone. David E. started around the conference table towards the laptop. Debbie interrupted him telepathically with, “Counter clockwise David E. Remember?”

“Sorry.” He whispered and turned to the other direction. Debbie went to its perch in the wall and joined with her Sanctum. As she covered the 13th Sancta with her hands, all of the Crystal Skulls emitted a blue luminance that enveloped her.

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Jimmy turned off his phone and stretched. Three hours of computer spades was enough. He was bored and scanned the room hoping for something, anything to happen. David E, was typing away on the laptop. Lord only knew what crazy conspiracy he was working on. Debbie, still covered with blue light, had not moved a muscle. Computers are supposed to be so fast. What the hell did they talk about for three hours. Eagle had been just sitting and staring at Charlie Sue the whole time. But then Eagle stood with urgency. He touched Wu to bring her around. “Debs. I think something is up.” Jimmy whispered. And she hurried over.

Eagle and Wu holding hands so he could talk to her silently, were pointing and commenting about the space over Charlie Sue’s head. Debbie placed her hand on theirs. “Don’t wake her Comista. See her aura through my eyes.” Debbie was fascinated. She saw it. Shimmering layers of colored light projecting outward from the body. And there, over her head as they said, a swirl of darkness. “It’s an independent level of consciousness, Comista. Only connects to her Delta state. I’ve heard they are possible but I never believed it until now.”

Debbie’s Sancti addressed the event full bore and it made sense. Of course. A separate altered state of consciousness. With no connection to her other levels and brain waves of sentience, it could work unimpeded while she slept and then disappear as if it never existed when she left Delta sleep.

“Comista. I need you to pull her Delta state into her Beta frequency. She should wake up and remember everything. Can you do that?”

“Yes Eagle. I think I can.”

“Okay. Give us a second to prepare. I don’t know how this will go.” He gently picked up Charlie Sue’s limp body into a firm hug and Wu put both hands on her shoulders to feel what was about to happen. “Comista, do it!”

Debbie pulled the delta waves and the unknown state of being into Charlie Sue’s Beta consciousness and all hell broke loose. Charlie Sue awoke in shock, struggling and clawing the air as she let go with a bloodcurdling scream. Shewuma cried out and dropped to the floor, unconscious.

I chuckled when I read the question. 🙂

“Foolproof?” I cannot tell you how many times folks tell me what they need, because they’ve spent an hour researching on the Internet.

My firm (https://www.L4SB.com/) competes with LegalZoom and others, selling LLC registrations. When an order comes in, a paralegal will be assigned to the case — we don’t automate. I cannot tell you how many times a week a paralegal will come into my office saying, “Umm, a client is ordering a LLC for her medical practice, but I think she’s in a state where she needs a PC or PLLC.”

Point being, it’s really easy to give clients what they ask for. It’s much harder to really understand what the client is asking, and then make sure they are doing it to serve their best interest.

Manager managed versus member managed? That’s a good question, and there are real legal consequences down the road. A good operating agreement? It’s more important than you might imagine.

If you’re interacting with any third-party, i.e. partners, clients, investors, etc., you owe it to yourself to verify that whoever you’re doing business with will actually have properly licensed attorneys and paralegals helping you.

Good luck to you! Larry.

I’ve said it many times before.

The moment you think there is nothing to be learned from outside, is when your society is doomed.

The Song thought that and were overthrown.

Then the Yuan thought that and were overthrown.

The Ming thought that and they too were overthrown.

The Qing also thought this and guess what they too were overthrown.

Today you can look at westerners, many of them think they are the APEX society and nothing can be learned from the subhumans outside. Francis Fukiyama in the 1990s wrote about the END of history how western literal democracy was the PEAK of CIVILISATION and nothing could be better.

Or look at how many white supremacists are online and in real life whereby they think they are peak civilisation and nothing can be better than them and everybody has to follow them.

Richard Lock literally said Africa has to follow western countries or they will be left behind.

Oh and you’re also shit at maths.

PRC China has 47 million students source:

China has over 47 mln higher-education students in 2023
BEIJING, March 1 (Xinhua) — China had over 47.63 million students at higher-educational institutions of various types in 2023, an increase of 1.08 million over the previous year, or up 2.32 percent year on year, the Ministry of Education said on Friday. Last year, over 10.42 million students were enrolled in universities, colleges and vocational schools nationwide, up 2.73 percent year on year, the ministry told a press conference. It noted about 1.3 million graduate students were enrolled across China in 2023, an increase of 4.76 percent over the previous year. The country boasted 3,074 higher-educational institutions in 2023, 61 more than 2022, the ministry said, adding that there were 2.07 million full-time teachers in higher education, up 4.91 percent from the previous year. The gross enrollment ratio in China’s higher education reached 60.2 percent in 2023, up 0.6 percentage points from 2022, the ministry noted.

There is just over 1 million overseas Chinese students.

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Which is the bigger number?

47,000,000

1,000,000

Come on tell don’t prove this meme!

Tesla and China are battling to electrify diesel trucks. Climate funds and Wall Street want in.

The numbers are damning. You all must watch this.

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It will not. Plus people are now sharing just how miserable teslas are in terms of quality and durability. Tesla blames owners for failures of parts they know are defective; like blaming an owner for putting the car through a car wash when a power steering pump fails.

Low mileage teslas are increasingly inhabiting junk yards. While they do have good acceleration, they are too heavy and performs poorly in curves. I enjoy taking my little Toyota MR2 (modified) out on track days and am surprised when a tesla shows up. On a track that rewards momentum through turns, and especially hairpins, I can make up three car lengths or more on a tesla and on short straights they cannot catch up.

They are shit cars in every dimension. On one track there is a slight rise with a short downslope on the back end. I cannot see ANY tesla having the suspension to handle the droop that this causes at speed while maintaining control.

This didn’t happen to me, it happened to my mom. She grew up in Romania/Transylvania. She said she went to see a ‘gypsy lady’.

The lady took a hair from my mom’s head. She placed a bowl of ice water on my mom’s head. She put the hair into some hot wax and poured the wax into the cold water. She then took the blob that formed in the ice water and told my mom her fortune. She was apparently freaked out and said she saw graves.

Lots and lots of graves. It frightened the gypsy lady that she crossed herself. She didn’t know what that was.

She said that my mom would leave the graves and travel across a body of water. When she got to that new land she would meet and marry there. She would then travel across a bigger body of water.

She would have two children. She would become a widow early and would not re marry.

My mom was in the holocaust and was in Auschwitz. She left there and travelled to Israel where she met my dad.

They left Israel and came to USA. She had my brother and me. My dad died in his early 60’s and my mom never re married. Now I don’t know if the gypsy told her how long she would live. She never told me that. My mom died a few days before her 90th birthday.

Sir Whiskerton and the Case of the Misplaced Meow:
A Tale of Silent Feline Fury, Groovy Interpretive Dance, and the Most Embarrassing Week of Sir Whiskerton’s Life


Chapter 1: The Sneeze That Stole Christmas (Or At Least a Meow)

The tragedy began, as all great tragedies do, with Zephyr the Genie trying to be helpful.

Sir Whiskerton had been in the middle of his third morning lecture to Ditto the Kitten about the “importance of enunciating one’s disdain properly” when Zephyr materialized in a puff of lavender-scented smoke directly in front of him.

  • “Whoa, heavy vibes, my feline friend,” Zephyr intoned, his lava lamp bubbling ominously. “Your aura’s like, totally blocked. Let me—”
  • “No,” said Sir Whiskerton.

Zephyr sneezed.

It wasn’t a normal sneeze. It was a mystical sneeze—the kind that shimmered with cosmic intent and smelled vaguely of patchouli and poor decisions.

And just like that—

Sir Whiskerton opened his mouth to deliver a scathing remark…

And nothing came out.

  • “Mrrp?” he tried.

Silence.

  • “MEE—”

Nothing.

His meow was gone.


Chapter 2: The Farm Descends Into Chaos

News spread faster than Doris the Hen at a grain sale.

  • “Sir Whiskerton’s mute?” gasped Porkchop the Pig, spitting out his breakfast turnip. “But how will he monologue about his brilliance?”
  • “This is paw-thetic,” Sir Whiskerton mouthed, his tail lashing.

Ditto, ever the helpful apprentice, immediately began echoing his lip movements in perfect, infuriating silence.

Meanwhile, Count Catula swooped in, draping himself over a fencepost.

  • “Ah! The silent treatment! How dramatic!” he declared, pressing a paw to his forehead. “You could be a star of the silver screen! The Lonely Phantom of the Barnyard!”

Sir Whiskerton responded with a mime so scathing, it should have legally counted as assault.


Chapter 3: The Rise of Interpretive Dance

Desperate times called for desperate gestures.

With no meow, Sir Whiskerton resorted to:

  1. Pointed Paws (for “you’re an idiot”).
  2. Tail Semaphore (for “fetch me the farmer, you incompetent loaf”).
  3. Full-Body Interpretive Dance (for “ZEPHYR, FIX THIS OR I WILL END YOU”).

It was during Option 3 that Tony the Dancing Bear wandered by.

  • “DUDE. Are you freestyling?” Tony gasped, his tiny ukulele strapped to his back. “This is next-level!”

Before Sir Whiskerton could mime “ABSOLUTELY NOT,” Tony had joined in, spinning on one foot and accidentally knocking over Bartholomew the Piñata.

  • “…What is happening?” mouthed Bessie the Tie-Dye Cow, watching the scene unfold.
  • “Performance art,” whispered Ratso the Rat, scribbling notes for his film noir screenplay. “The Maltese Meow.”

Chapter 4: The Quest for the Lost Meow

Sir Whiskerton’s investigation led him to:

  1. Chef Remy’s Lab (where the raccoon offered “experimental voice-restoring pickles”).
    • Sir Whiskerton declined via aggressive jazz hands.
  2. Slow Bob the Turtle (who claimed his time-traveling shell could “undo the sneeze”).
    • This resulted only in Sir Whiskerton briefly existing in two places at once, which did not help.
  3. The Moonlit Melon (which mysteriously repeated “the answer is within” until Porkchop ate it).

Finally, in a last-ditch effort, Sir Whiskerton confronted Zephyr, who was busy “realigning his chakras” inside his lava lamp.

  • “FIX. THIS.” Sir Whiskerton mimed, with the intensity of a thousand suns.

Zephyr blinked. “Oh. Right. The meow thing. Yeah, man, it’ll, like… return when you least expect it?”

Sir Whiskerton’s silent scream could be felt across the farm.


Chapter 5: The Grand Finale (And the Return of Dignity)

The breakthrough came at dawn.

Ditto, in a rare moment of not being a tiny echo-based menace, tripped over Sir Whiskerton’s discarded monocle

—and let out a perfect imitation of Sir Whiskerton’s “I am profoundly disappointed in you” meow.

Like a cosmic rubber band, Sir Whiskerton’s voice SNAPPED back into place.

  • “FINALLY!” he yowled, his first word in days. “I HAVE SURVIVED THIS INJUSTICE!”

The farm cheered.

  • “Your silent era was art,” sighed Count Catula, dabbing his eyes with a lace handkerchief.
  • “Can we keep the dancing?” asked Tony, still pirouetting.
  • “NO.”

Epilogue: The Moral of the Story

As life returned to normal, Sir Whiskerton delivered one final lecture to Zephyr:

  • “Let this be a lesson. Never meddle with perfection. And if you must sneeze, aim away from the aristocracy.”

Moral: Voice matters—but so does creativity (and dignity, however little remains after interpretive bear-assisted dance).

The End.


Key Jokes:

  • “Paw-thetic” mimed insults.
  • Count Catula’s silent film delusions.
  • Tony the Bear accidentally starting a dance cult.
  • The Moonlit Melon’s vague advice being eaten.

Starring: Sir Whiskerton (silent but deadly), Zephyr (regretful), Ditto (echoing disaster), and Tony (just happy to be here).

P.S. Sir Whiskerton burned the interpretive dance diagrams. No witnesses remain. 🔥🎭

A smartwatch is a great way to stay in contact with your child—and it can be a great place to start before they get a phone. I typically recommend trying a smartwatch with younger kids (elementary school-age) who are starting to do more things away from parents. If your child walks to school or participates in sports or other extracurricular activities, a watch can be a lifesaver if practice gets cancelled or something else comes up. A smartwatch is usually a smaller investment, too, which matters when you’re giving tech to a kid—you don’t want to buy an iPhone that gets dropped and shattered on the second day (this happened to my nephew).

Some smartwatches are designed specifically for kids and have built-in features to improve safety and teach them how to be responsible with this kind of technology. I recommend smartwatches that include GPS tracking, two-way talk and text, and a camera if you want to be able to see what’s going on. Companies like Gabb offer smartwatches with a closed network and parental controls. Others, like AngelSense, have features designed for children with special needs.

As kids move into middle school and increase their independence, it makes sense to look at upgrading from a smartwatch to a phone. One of the benefits of starting with a watch before getting your child a phone, is that they will have developed responsible habits—from remembering to charge the device and put it on in the morning, to only communicating with known contacts and using approved apps. And if you go with a brand like Gabb, you can get a phone in the same family, which makes the transition easy for both kids and parents.

Trump believes he’s gong to use these tariffs to create a new world order, similar to Bretton Woods, then the Jamaica Accords. He even ready has a name for it, the Mar-a-Lago Accord.

He wants to create a situation where some countries are effectively vassals to the U.S., paying the U.S. for protection against a second group, the “enemies”.

Except under these circumstances the country you’re paying protection to is barely distinguishable from those bad guys. He wants to set the monetary exchange rates. Dropping the U.S. dollar, making U.S. manufacturing competitive around the world. If that sounds incredibly inflationary, you’re paying attention.

He thinks that he’s playing 12-dimensional chess where the countries he’s just put egregious tariffs against will come begging for relief, and he’ll set the terms.

I suspect he’s going to be bitterly disappointed in the real-world outcome of his gambit. When it fails bigly I expect some serious wag-the-dog moments like attacking Greenland and Panama as distractions. Perhaps Canada, though I’d like to think he’s not that stupid.

As usual, the only ones who’ll benefit from this are himself and his billionaire buddies. The rest of us around the world get screwed.

Why Anti-China YouTubers Are Failing (And Crying About It!)

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The obvious solution, though not the best one, is simply “Medicare for all.” You just expand and expand the eligibility until it covers everybody. Of course the insurance companies get screwed as everyone drops them like a live grenade, but that doesn’t bother me. They can diversify their business with sufficient advance notice.

The preferable solution is the UK’s: a National Health Service paid for out of a special National Insurance tax (which would still cost less than health insurance does now). All the state-owned hospitals come under its aegis. Clinics have contracts with the NHS to provide services. This does require scrapping a lot of the current system, but it improves things for the patients.

Let’s consider the years of ruling Taiwan under different rulers and make a pie chart of the past 400 years:

The Chinese Empire takes about 50% of time-212 years. The second is the Republic of China in Taipei, about 1/6 of the time—76 years. Japanese Empire is 50 years. While the third was a European country—Dutch. then the Ming Royalists and Spain.

Let’s focus on the past 150 years and the chart would be very different:

The administration from Mainland China—the Chinese Empire and the Republic of China at Nanking sums up to about 1/6 of the time, while the Japanese Empire and the Republic of China at Taipei sum up to about 5/6.

I am 50 years old now. What I heard about the administration outside Taiwan are all from my parents and grandparents. The two years of ROC in Nanking’s administration were pure military. Then the central government of the ROC moved to Taipei and Taiwan since then never received any instructions from mainland China. About the Chinese Empire—which was not a modern nation—according to my past grandparents—it was a nice time when people were honest and took care of each other. The administration of the Chinese emperor in Beijing was minimal.

During Japanese colonization, Taiwan was supposed to follow instructions from Tokyo. However, the Japanese Empire authorized the Taiwanese Governor to work independently, so the Taiwanese did not feel much about the influence of the Japanese mainland.

In other words, this island has been running independently for more than a hundred years, except for the two-year military taking-over. Taiwanese are accustomed to this political operation.

Returning to mainland China is a totally new thing for the Taiwanese, except for those immigrants after WWII. More of these WWII immigrants can accept “reunion” yet most local Taiwanese do not prefer it. China is a totalitarian regime and the Taiwanese had 40 years of this experience under the ROC’s martial law years. It was a dark memory so it is hard to expect people would choose to go back to those days.

To what end? Look, what people don’t realize is that Elons wealth is based solely on the value of the Tesla Stock. He’s actually quite cash poor. Tesla is the only thing of value he has. If he loses Tesla he’s essentially done. SpaceX is tied directly to government Contracts.

Elons purchase of Twitter was leveraged by Tesla stock, if the value of the stock goes too low his creditors are going to declare him in default and will seek to recoup their losses. That means seizing both the Tesla stock he leveraged against AND Twitter.

Moreover, if the stock price continues to drop, he could be ousted from management by the other shareholders, essentially removing his control of the company. Even if this were a stock buyback scam, first he would be sued up the ass by the other investors and secondly, even if he was allowed to buy up Tesla stock on the cheap that’s not going to bring customers back to the car showrooms.

So no, the Tesla shock price free fall is not a good thing. He has triggered a worldwide boycott of Tesla products, that’s not something he can easily reverse. There is a lot of anger directed toward him personally.

BREAKING NEWS

One of Teslas top investors has just called on Elon to resign. The investor revolt has begun.

MORE BREAKING NEWS

Europe top hedge fund as sold all its Tesla stock and instructed all its investors to immediately divest from all Musk owned businesses

One Million people protested against the US President Trump all of Saturday

Will it help 0.1% ????

Until minimum 20/1/2027, Nothing will change in the US and Trump will do whatever he wants and run amok

Can anyone change anything?

So what’s the point of SPEAKING FREELY???????

Meanwhile

In China, Protests can change so many things

It led to the overhaul of the rural banking system in 2022

It lead to the end of covid lockdowns in Dec 2022, at least 6 months earlier than planned

It lead to the strategic mixed economy of private public models after the bank failures of the 1990s

Protests make a change!!!

I like such a system better

 

I slept with his best man, he leaked the video during dinner with my family

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I broke my ankle in Scotland and spend a day at the tiny hospital in Oban, being treated and taken care of. My wife went to pay the bill. “There’s no charge for emergency services,” said the accounting nurse. “We’re here to fix people. Not charge them.”

“But we’re not Scottish,” said my wife. The nurse obviously knew that.

“It makes no difference, there’s no charge. Take care and tell your husband to stay off that foot!”

Three months later my wife dislocated her shoulder and spend four hours in the Stanford ER before they managed to massage it back into place. We received the bill (although insurance paid it). It was forty-five thousand, eight hundred and eighty dollars ($45,880.—). The American medical system is a thieving menace that MUST be put away, SOON!!!

It will cool down.

Because China has pretty much already won the trade war.

The US started the war in 2018 with two clear goals:

  1. Make the US great again;

2. Stop China’s rise.

China was forced into this war with one goal only:

To defend the Chinese right of growth and development.

7 years into the war and counting, the US is no greater than it was in the 2010s, and China is now stronger than ever.

Any clear headed observer would understand that China is winning big time and there’s no change to this in the foreseeable future.

The US must change its strategy.

Does it double down on the losing strategy of “actung tough” on China, maybe even move toward physical war? since the US has basically depleted all the cards it can play in the trade war during the past 7 years?

Or does it back down and go back to pre-2018 era, when US corporations made huge money working with China?

It would seem like the second option is far less risky and more lucrative.

However, China wants to make double sure that the US doesn’t choose option one, so it showcased some of the most advanced weapons on planet earth during its Sept. 3rd parade, before hitting back at the US sanctions in October.

So here we are, Trump and Xi shaking hands by the end of October, 2025, de-escalating the trade war.

Historically, wine was a sophisticated investment only for the ultra-rich.

Now, it has become easier to invest in it if you aren’t super rich.

What’s more, some wines are liquid, if you excuse the pun, so they are easier to sell than has historically been the case.

On my podcast recently, I interviewed a wine-investing expert on this very subject:

Like all investments, the key things are deciding on:

  • How much risk do you want to take?
  • How much liquidity do you need?
  • Do you have the knowledge, or do you need to outsource it to a wine-investing company?
  • Which trends could help or hurt a particular investment in the future? In the West, people are drinking less alcohol, especially younger people, but the world is a big place where luxury alcohol consumption is increasing drastically in some parts of the world.
  • High-end wine is in the luxury goods sector and is distinctive from other drinks. Is this sector, in general, primed for growth?

My own, the author of the question. A pair of couples I picked up at an expensive restaurant one evening. They were going to two destinations each about two miles apart. They were not a happy group. The man sitting beside me engaged conversation with me, but nothing from the back of the car, he was a nice bloke, but the silence from behind was notable. We arrived at the first house and they start arguing about how to split the bill ( total fare 43 quid). Nice bloke gets bored of 22 or 23 quid as the share of the couple who are going further, gives them 50 quid and says ‘just give that to the driver’. He’s made his point that they are are tight arseholes and he can get out of the cab and get on with his life. I go on to the next drop and drop the couple at their home. The woman gave me nice mans £50 and said ‘I want £7 change’. Free trip plus £7 profit for them, plus stole my tip. Absoutely hilarious and worth it to see such gobsmackingly poor behaviour.

Hart Stillwell’s Baked Beans

Hart Stillwell, a frontier novelist, made a rough version of these beans over campfires while on fishing and hunting trips.

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Ingredients

  • 2 pounds cooked navy beans or other white beans
  • 1 1/2 cups tomato juice
  • 1 cup chopped pecans, toasted
  • 3/4 cup dark brown sugar (or less)
  • 3/4 cup strong black coffee
  • 1/2 medium red onion, chopped
  • 1/2 cup ketchup
  • 1/2 cup bourbon
  • 4 slices slab bacon, chopped
  • 1 carrot, finely grated
  • 2 tablespoons unsulphured dark molasses
  • 2 tablespoons dry mustard

Instructions

  1. Heat oven to 350 degrees F.
  2. Mix all ingredients together in a large bowl. Pour the mixture into a baking dish.
  3. Bake the beans, uncovered, about 1 1/2 hours, or until they have thickened and cooked down, with a “skin” just beginning to form on the top of the beans.

Notes

If you like beans less sweet, reduce the amount of brown sugar.

These beans reheat well and keep refrigerated for several days.

They can’t

The Yuan isn’t freely available everywhere for people to buy and pay like the Dollar, Pound or even the Indian Rupee

One reason the Chinese have such a resilient economy is the DUAL CIRCULATION SYSTEM.

A Key advantage is that the Yuan isn’t freely convertible.

Only the PBOC and HK and 18 financial institutions in the world can sell Yuan against almost 14,700 that can sell Dollars Or 4,235 that can sell the Pound Or 2,167 that can sell Singapore Dollars


So these importers would have to pay the PBOC in Dollars and buy Yuan from them and pay the exporters

They do this anyway

They pay Dollars to PBOC who in turn pay Yuan to the Exporters in China

So there is no point of this

Yes, like Russia if Chinas accounts were frozen and China couldn’t access the dollars to convert into Yuan and pay it’s exporters – Then China may demand payment in Yuan

Otherwise there is no need or point so far

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